Saturday, 17 October 2009

  • I Hate My Small Boobs!

    I Hate My Small Boobs

    although looking this plastic might be worse...

    (At least, they do for me.)  I went shopping today in places like Charlotte Russe, Forever 21, H&M,  (the like) and I found myself looking in their lingerie sections for a cute bra.  I am a 5 foot 9½ inch
    18 year old female with a thin figure but no butt and no boobs.  The smallest size these stores had was a 34B.   I'm a 32A, with the exception of a FEW 34As. 

    I hate looking flat as a board.  I like my figure and I wouldn't have it any other way but I can't stand my non-existent chest.  I always buy tight but fitted clothing because I want to look like I actually have a chest.  And I always wear skinny jeans because they make me look like I have a butt.  I don't look like a pencil when I wear them.  I even buy padded bras because they sometimes make me look like a B instead of a A. 

    I don't want double Ds.  I don't want HUGE boobs.  I would never even consider breast enlargement because  it's expensive, unnatural, and plastic surgery in general just seems really stupid to me (unless someone is
    horribly disfigured by some sort of accident or birth defect.)  Besides, huge boobs would look ridiculously non-proportional with my body type and I'd probably fall over.  I just wish I was a size bigger. 
    My friends tell me my body looks good and I believe it too.  But I can't stand my tiny boobs!!!!  People tell me all the time, "Oh you have no idea how much it sucks to have big boobs.  Guys only stare at your chest,
    you can't fit into certain clothes, you're always showing cleavage, they make you look bigger, etc....I wish I had boobs like yours."  No you don't!  Being skinny and tiny can really suck!  Sometimes, you don't look
    your age, you have to buy smaller/tighter clothes, and it sucks looking for a bra.   

    The places I get my bras are Victoria's Secret and this place back home in Vegas that I can't even remember the name of because I only went there twice.  Even the places that have my small size have all of the
     cute bras for girls with bigger boobs.  I don't want to wear a beige bra everyday.  I like to feel pretty/cute.  I only have three cute bras while the rest are these generic boring colors.  Granted, neutral colored bras work
    well with certain clothes but that's not the point.  I look at Victoria's Secret ads and the women always have medium or large boobs.  Never have I seen an A cup bra model.

    I've never dieted, and don't work to loose weight, I just have a very very high metabolism.  But because my small boobs make me look completely flat, people sometimes think I don't eat, make myself throw up,
    and garbage like that.  I don't do any of those things.  I just wish I wasn't a shapeless twig!  I'm pretty sure my body is done developing and my boobs aren't going to get any bigger.  It upsets me, but I'll have to live
    with them for the rest of my life.

    Do you have small boobs? Have you made peace with them?

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Comments (191)

  • IronicBox@xanga

    I'm very flat chested I actually love it, but it does make finding bras difficult.

  • gatorgirl54@xanga

    I'm barely an A, and honestly I was really happy with them until literally last week I was talking to one of my guy friends about possible girlfriends for him, and about one girl he said "She's really nice, and she's really pretty, but I don't think she tells funny stories and she's flat-chested."

    I went shopping for extra-padded bras today because I'm now paranoid of being rejected just for my chest, but when they have extra padding and advertise that they make you a cup bigger, they don't look soft and they stick out abnormally, looking like implants. 

    I'm currently looking for natural-looking padded bras..
  • MangoWOW@xanga

    I have huge boobs. I hate them.
    They're ugly, gross, will eventually be all loose and hanging (bleh!). Not only that but they give me serious back pains and its hard to find shirts my size because my chest doesnt fit. Either I wear a super low cut v neck that gives the girls more room or I find a shirt two sizes up.
    And Im only a DD.

    And sorry, I have to disagree. All the cute bra's are for smaller sized boobs. Once you hit D the cuteness and variety go down A LOT. You have to go to specialty stores to buy cute big bras.
  • ghostcomplex@xanga

    i have huge boobs and it sucks.
    i wish i had itty bitties.

  • IronicBox@xanga

    @gatorgirl54@xanga -  I don't think you have much to worry about from your pic :P Though I risk sounding like a bit of creep your very cute and a lot of guys (I know.) at least prefer girls flatter chests. They always tell me they don't like anything over a hand full, but I suppose it depends on the person.
  • forever_4_real@xanga

    I don't....
  • JoeytheGenie@xanga

    I know how you feel
    most of the time I don't mind them being small and actually like the fact they're small (I"m a runner, let's me run faster b/c I have less weight to carry)
    but when it comes to dress shopping....I can't find ANYTHING that fits. get this, I got my semi dress from Sport Chek simply b/c my boobs didn't fit into anything
    oh btw, my boobs were still too small for that dress...
  • InEveryHeartbeat@xanga

    I have small boobs compared to other girls my age. I'm always wearing sweaters (even when it's really hot) because I don't want anyone to notice. I don't even want to go bra shopping, I have ugly bras that I got when I was like ten, and they don't even have cups. I just hope I grow :/
  • TequilaKisses@xanga

    I have a B cup.  I used to be satisfied with it until I hung out with C and D cup girls :P
    In fact, in my wildest dream, I'd get a DD silicon boob job, then maybe settle my career in pornography soon later.
  • gatorgirl54@xanga

    @IronicBox@xanga - Aw..thanks. Yeah but I don't know what percentage of the male population thinks I'm attractive enough to date, and whenever a friend tells me I'm pretty, I think they're only saying it to make me feel better because that's what I would do as a friend. I tend to believe strangers online more because they tend to be more honest.
  • snapeful@xanga

    This is what... the 10th time or so this subject has been posted and brought up?

    NOBODY CARES, KEEP ON QQING N00B OR STFU

    (Talking to lovelyish.. Individual posters' weblogs is totally fine)
  • miss_prettyinpink@xanga

    You're only 18, so you might still fill out in a few years. 
  • fivepointfourtwo@xanga

    hahaha we have the same size boobs. 32A and sometimes 34A (: uhhh, guys have commented that I am flat chested and yeah I wear more fitted clothes so I don't look like a pre-teen sometimes, but it's okay (: cause if I had bigger boobs, I think my body would look disproportional and my back would ache O.o plus my ex seemed to like my body just fine, so there will always be a guy to love you for you and your body (: 
  • snapeful@xanga

    @gatorgirl54@xanga - Lol, if you look at SNSD (Girls' Generation, a kpop group) and pretty much all the music groups out there with cute girls, they are all wanted and lusted after even though they are flatchested. DW, if you're Asian the package comes as 'adorable and possibly hot face but flatchested.'
  • IronicBox@xanga

    @gatorgirl54@xanga - You're welcome. I'm always paranoid about the same thing with my friends and family. XD I always say something like "Well you love me so of course you like my small boobs/huge thighs etc etc." I also agree about people being more honest online. Sometimes that's a good thing and sometimes it's bad. :P
  • vegaskandigirl@xanga

    I'm small chested...I don't mind it as much as I used to.  When I gained some weight I went up to maybe a C, but I'm back down to an A and it's really not so bad.  Most of the time I just wear sports bras anyway, because they're comfy.  Walmart has some cute bras in smaller sizes, with different colors and patterns and stuff =)  its not so bad being smaller

  • ForeverLove_xx@xanga

    I'm actually pretty sure they have a lot of cute bra's in 32 and 34 A lol. Maybe you should try going to someplace like Walmart? I don't know, I don't usually buy bras or anything there.
    I can see how you'd want to be a size bigger and all, but I'm a 34B and people still make fun of my size sometimes. It's not cool but I'm comfortable with it for sure. Small boobs are cute anyways.
  • rhea

    I have small boobs.. I love them now. And why shouldn't you? Small doesn't mean they're not sexy or cute or pretty. When people ask me if I would get implants, I tell them no. and say they're not small! They're high fashion! hahah.

  • FueltotheFire@xanga
    feeling...

    I'm 5'1 but am also a 32A.  Sometimes it's crappy, but for the most part I think I'm ok.  Aerie, by American Eagle has super cute small bras.  It's the only place I've found, since my Victoria's Secret starts at a 34A-B.  Try Aerie if there's one in your area!  They even have this bra-caddie thing, it's like a box with all the styles they have in your size so you can try them all on and see which styles you like best.  I found two of their styles that make my A look like a B with virtually no padding, just great support.


    I am glad though, when I'm older, my A's will still be perky, I won't have as many back problems, and more than a handful is a waste anyway! :)

  • meta_k@xanga

    I wrote this.
    I appreciate all the comments, every one.
    But I still hate my small boobs.
  • MoonFaeEyryan@xanga

    If I was as tall and skinny as you, I'd try to be a model. Not a lot of high fashion models have a large chest either...

    Anyway, I used to be an A... then as I grew (I'm 20 now), I'm now a B cup, almost a C cup because my breasts are very wide (not long, just wide, its weird). So they still have time to grow, and, it's just boobs... you'll stop caring about them soon enough (when you get cellulite! I kid, I kid). Enjoy the fact that you won't have stretched out boobs and you can wear lots of cute clothing! And because you're tall I suggest clothing that shows off your legs.
  • laurenmaureen@xanga

    I do have small boobs, and I like them.
  • naguyin@xanga

    .... I don't get it. From me, I just don't like boobs that are intimidating in size. Small is fine because it'll always fit your body type. :D


    @gatorgirl54@xanga - I don't know the percentage either but I think you're pretty. ;)lol +1? 
  • Spyder_V@xanga

    At least you have boobs =P

    I don't have boobs... then again I'm a guy and it'd be weird, but you know what I mean. Seriously though, appreciate what you have. The grass is always greener on the other side. Really learn to love yourself the way you are, there are women with one or no boobs (due to defects or cancer) and they learn to accept that and live on! If you're complimented as much as it sounds you are, you should be quite proud of what you have =)
  • SamiiSaysHaii@xanga

    I have about 34B boobs right now and I would love to have C's, but I mean, I'm only 15. I still have time for them to [hopefully] get bigger ! But either way, what will it matter ? Boobs won't make me any less appealing, unless people really going to be that shallow now. Plus, most girls with larger boobs always say that they hate them and wish they were smaller. It sure does look awkward/like a pain sometimes ahaha



    And I have seen and have a lot of cute A cup bras ! 

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