Saturday, 12 September 2009

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  • soyeahthatswhathappened@xanga

    eh, i think it's kind of a teenage/early adulthood thing...i'm sure there is a more grown-up way to keep that edge.

  • chelseanataliex@xanga

    I think it's really ugly.. bleghh. :/

  • zxzeebrastar@xanga

    20..okay, 40? eh. Grow up.

  • ghostcomplex@xanga

    i don't really mind it. if they wanna dress that way then go ahead.
    though it does start looking pretty stupid once you're out of your twenties.

  • walkintotheseaaa@xanga

    That second picture is pretty damn hot.


    But, really, people need to grow up.  That's so... middle school.

  • AnchorsAwayx@xanga

    cool if done in moderation.

  • XoAsianBabioX@xanga

    i find it odd, not matter what age.

  • sick_of_dreams@xanga

    @zxzeebrastar@xanga - @walkintotheseaaa@xanga - I still dress that way but it's more of the gothic lolita look. Goth is not whatmost peoplethink of with the low quality 'edgy' clothes that border on more of everyday halloween/punk. I am 22 years old and i still find the look flattering. However unlike most middle school children I do know when it is appropriate and when it is not. For example I recently did a graphic design internship with Anheuser Busch and I didn't wear those types of clothes there.Aside from that do we really need to be so judgemental? Idon't find the pop princess look flattering and yet I'm not mean about it. Why don't we just take the 'to each his own approach'. I mean is it really hurting you for adults to express themselves in this manner?

  • crim077@xanga

    its simply a style and depending upon who you are or what your doing such as a model or musician or something along those lines or someone who has made a self sustaining lifestyle out of it is free to do as they please we all have the desire to express ourselves.  If its what your passionate about then i say by all means for anyone who knows what it actually is or means in this day and age to be gothic.  I will have more respect for the person who holds true to who they are while doing something with their life than anyone who has ever settled or sold out to become just another miserable 9-5 working pawn.

  • BiTheWay_ItsAdvice@xanga

    scary. like.. that's extreme at any age...

  • S_K_O_T@xanga

    @zxzeebrastar@xanga - What?


    People of 40, and OLDER, came up with EVERY style you take for granted, and NOTHING new has come along in 20 years, and CAN'T.


    You, who rips off everything, even if you don't know it, FAIL to have the right to say when anyone else should or shouldn't stop dressing any way. And this goes way, WAY, beyond Goth, which itself was already pretty dull in 1981.

  • carydeeluxe@xanga

    does it really matter what people want to wear at whatever age? i say, mind your own business and keep your judgment to yourself. you're only responsible for dressing yourself and no one else [unless you have children, or a poorly dressed significant other, in which case...]

    ohh man, i feel an angry rebuttal post coming on...

  • Belle_Volonte@xanga

    Meh, speaking as someone who used to do the whole goth thing awhile back, it looses it's edge.  I think you can still acheive a classy look and get that goth edge in by buying steampunk or goth inspired pieces, or hell, making them.

    True goth looks very nice and elegant, the shit that's in the top picture are the people that made it go out of style and into the extreme in the first place.  I loves me some Victorian, Renaissance, Medival inspired clothing and hair, but very little of what is worn today could ever be considered that.
  • GieGieHeart@xanga

    Sometimes scary depending on how far your take the look. I'm usually about wear what you want and express yourself but at 50...that just makes me think, grow up.

  • S_K_O_T@xanga

    I'd rather talk of all this on a wider scale, because there never really was anything called Goth. Goth was generally limited and boring even in the early 80's, and those labelled as Goths back then, such as Robert Smith and Siouxsie Sioux vehemently denied such an association...and any deliberate Goths later on were usually fairly dopey and more constrained than any "normal" people.


    What's the point is there hase been NO generational or stylistic shift in over 20 years, and there CAN'T be. There's a lot of awesome looking 'younger' people getting around now, but most are as dumb as dishwater with NO idea that EVERYTHING they are doing, wearing, and listening to goes back at least 25 years. Post-Punk, Hip Hop, Industrial, New Wave, Goth, New Romantic, Hardcore and on and on, back through Punk and often to even earlier.


    And anyone who did those styles, any of us, who did it for real, when it counted, can keep on doing it as long as they like !

  • S_K_O_T@xanga

    What may be called 'Goth', and any related notions, actually harks back to lot's of much older styles and eras...and as one gets older that can translate into some brilliant, stylish, and very classy clothes and looks.

  • Erika_Steele@xanga

    to each thier own. people can dress the way they want to dress and I love seeing people in thier 40s still dressing Goth.  Like it has already been said, they are the ones that started the trend.


    Personally, I like to just incorporate some of the looks into my wadrobe.

  • Rachies_Icons@xanga

    beautiful? unique? true to themselves? charming? adorable? a good thing?


    that's what i think

  • MistyBones@xanga

    Those poor people that you are judging probably invented the "goth" look. They got made fun of for it in school...and now that its "cool" for teens to be goth, you guys want to make fun of them in their old age...sure, go right ahead.

  • Tastes_Eclectic_Fashion

    Gothic style should really have no age limitations. It's not like, say punk, which is all about angst and rebellion and what-not. However, the mass marketed world has made "goth" a teen trend, a phase that some go through.


    I think it's ridiculous to judge people based on how old they are and if they are "goth." It really shouldn't be about age. Now, emo and scene girls in their late 20's and up....they deserve no respect.


    (By the way, Dita Vone Teese-in the second picture I believe- isn't goth exactly. She's more of a vintage Holywood glamor)

  • HereInMyVoid@xanga

    well it's definitely not normal but people should do whatever they feel like. i prefer this look over trampy half-naked housewives anyway. but the world would be pretty bland if there weren't some eccentric people spicing it up every now and again.

  • HerWar@xanga

    I think it's great. I think it's adorable. I love it.
    I approve. lol

  • imyourstargirl@xanga

    I think I'd have a little more faith in people who dress goth in their thirties or forties.
    At that age, it pretty much guarantees that they're not mindlessly following some silly trend.

  • forever_4_real@xanga

    I think it's wrong at any age... It scares me...

  • journalofsparkles@xanga
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