Friday, 20 February 2009
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Why Are Asian Women Obsessed with Western Beauty?
This summer, our family visited Hangzhou. While we were there we arranged to get glamor shots taken. It was my first time doing such a thing. When the results came out, I was surprised that I looked so good.
I was also surprised by my mother's comments.
My mom complimented me by saying, "You look like a foreigner!" She said it a couple times. She thought that my eyes were a little lighter than other Chinese eyes. Weird. I like looking Chinese, I don't care about looking more like a white person. Everyone else in Asia does though. Chinese women are obsessed with staying light-skinned, having bigger eyes and boobs, and being taller. It shows in advertisements. Most models are white and there are so many products to help you stay light-skinned and doctors who do plastic surgery on the eyes and chest.
If you pick up a Chinese magazine here, every other page will be an advertisement for plastic surgery. The most popular operations are ones to enlarge the eyes and breasts, and also to give eyes "suan yan pi" or that little fold in your eyelid that so many Oriental Asians lack.
Next in popularity are surgeries to improve your skin. They can get rid of your freckles, bags under your eyes, acne scarring, etc. And then there are other operations, like ones to unwrinkle your skin, change your nose/lips, get rid of bunions, and so on. It's really scary how frequently the ads appear.
I don't know about other Asians, but I am perfectly happy with the way I look. I like looking Asian and I don't aspire to look like a Caucasian.
Why do you think some Asian women are so obsessed with Western ideals of beauty?
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It's not only Asians. White people have cosmetic surgery all the time.
I don't understand that, personally, because there are gorgeous people everywhere, regardless of race or religion. You just can't hold everyone to the same standards, because obviously we're all going to look different, but if we were all identical no one would be beautiful.
Whenever anyone wants to be something they are not, I assume it's a combination of worship of a foreign or unattainable ideal and some sort of self-hatred/self-disdain.
The same reason why Westerners are obsessed with Asians - the grass is always greener on the other side.
they love white skin.
I never understood that either.
People see white or fair skin as beautiful or a trademark of beauty I guess. I'm not really sure, but I think it sucks they should be happy with whatever they have.
well im asian, and like i like to be either pale. or tanned. i mean like some asians, their skin is like neither. and they just dont want to be tanned. LOL
i have "suan yan pi" hehehe. (:
those are western ideals of beauty? i thought those were just general things. what is considered an asian ideal of beauty then?
I tan VERY easily, when i went to hk everyone there was "how are you ever going to find a guy if you're so dark?" and that was when I was 11 or 12. When I'm home in Canada, I get stopped all the time by people asking me if I used a tanner and that they love my skin. But to me I love the way I look, even though I wish some of my features were different but either way this is me and there's not much I can change about it as I believe in natural beauty. I'm tan from running, so what if I can't find an asian guy? I like white guys better anyways. Call me whitewashed but I don't care.
Well, the light skinned thing isn't just because of Europeans. If you trace back, Chinese people who were wealthy and could afford to stay inside would stay white whereas peasants and farmers had to be out under the sun and were always very tanned. If you wanted to look and seem high class, you would have light skin.
I really agree with "the grass is always greener on the other side". Frankly, I've grown up in North America and I've been back to visit Guangdong and Hong Kong twice (I wish I had glamour shots taken!) but I'll never aspire to look Caucasian. I think the fact that I've been so totally immersed in a community of Caucasians that looking Asian is both refreshing and unique to me.
Most of the people I went to high school with were Caucasian, but they would tan and tan and tan because they wanted to be dark. (Well, sucks for them because now they're orange.) So many people, including all ethnicities, will aspire to be something they're not for one reason or another. I know what I am and love being and looking Asian!
you always want what you can't/don't have.
Some Asian women don't like to have fair skin. They go tanning... much like Caucasians do.
I must say I'm kinda guilty of this. I wear colored contact lenses to alter the color of my eyes, I dye my hair, and I wish my boobs were bigger. However, I don't see myself as being as extreme as other Asians.
hmm... Make me feel guilty I love asians they are adorable but theres more to a women then looks. I wouldn't want a hot Asian with a bad really aditude or no mannors. I getting off topic but just felt like I had to say that.
I think thats a total stereotype and I don't think most Asians want to look "caucasian." I'm sorry but not only do Caucasians have the eye lid and not only do Caucasians have light skin, tall noses, etc...Its about beauty and in most countries those are the things thats beautiful to the society.
oh and btw statistics show that 50% of Asians are born with double eye lids.
i'm chinese. i'm perfectly fine with how i look. although i could lose a few pounds. :P
i can't really tan. i'm the least tan in my family. i already have that eyelid fold. i would never consider opening my eyes more or getting a boob job though. my boobs are decently-sized as they are.
i agree with everyone else though. it's not really an asian thing. it's more of a "hey i want to look young and beautiful" thing.
That's like saying Westerners want to look Asian because they want to be skinny, and Asians are naturally skinny. Or they want to have straight hair, and Asians usually have naturally straight hair. And white people also get plastic surgery, it's not something that's exclusive to Asian people.
That's not Asians wanting to look Western.
Your post makes me a little angry.
I think we are all obsessed with another cultures beauty, in some cases. I know a lot of American girls obsessed with asian beauty, I am one of them! I wish I were born Asian, because they all have the perfect skin. I think Asian women are exceptionally beautiful, (but I think that about a lot of cultures and races and ethnicities.)
I wish that women loved themselves and their features as they are. Its so depressing to see women doing dramatic changes to their body in hopes of looking a certain way.
I've noticed that a lot of people seem to be angry about asians wanting to look western. Its TRUE that a lot of them do strive for that. I've read a lot of books on chinese cultures and such, and some feel that if they do not meet a certain standard, they will not marry. When moving to the USA, they often try to look like us because they want to be accepted. Its that way in a lot of places, its just more focus is put on western culture and asian culture.
=[ I wish it would stop! In vietnam people would wear turtle necks so their bodies would be light skin ahhhh *cringes*
I like looking/not being nonwestern.
I don't see how the surgeries in the quoted paragraph attribute to the idea that Asian women are obsessed with western beauty:
"Next in popularity are surgeries to improve your skin. They can get rid of your freckles, bags under your eyes, acne scarring, etc. And then there are other operations, like ones to unwrinkle your skin, change your nose/lips, get rid of bunions, and so on."
I think these things are undesirable almost everywhere. Having them removed and stuff doesn't give you a more western look.
Also, having light skin is NOT always about wanting to look Caucasian. A long time ago, light skin was an indicator of your social status. If you had people to slave outside in the sun for you, obviously you had to be at least somewhat wealthy. If you were tan, you worked outdoors and couldn't afford to hire servants/slaves. This perception of beauty was evident in Asia (e.g. China and Japan) and in the west.
You can google this topic and find a lot of information about it, but here's one that I just found about just Japanese people.
http://uniorb.com/ATREND/asianwhite.html
Queen Elizabeth I was also really pale for the same reason. I think this has actually been around in Europe for at least a few centuries.
See this link: http://www.elizabethi.org/uk/profile/appearance.html
One movie (besides the movies about Elizabeth) that I recall where they also demonstrated this notion of beauty was Titanic. Kate Winslet's character, Rose, came from a rich family and if you've seen the movie, she is really pale. I think they mentioned this and all she had to do to avoid tanning in the making of the movie or something. Forgot what channel I saw it on (it was also back in like 1998).
On a related note, being kinda fat also indicated wealth because you had the money to eat all that food.
It's funny how much the standards have changed. It was only decades ago it was beautiful to be a full-figured and curvy woman, like Marilyn Monroe.
For anyone who wants to read, this is an interesting article about colorism. It states that European imperialists are blamed for bringing the idea that "lighter skin is righter" to Asia and North Africa, but some people claim that this idea may have already existed in these areas. I haven't read through it all yet and I don't know who's right, but it's interesting so far.
http://www.colorq.org/Articles/article.aspx?d=2002&x=colorism
i agree!
i love the color of my skin
but filipinos are so big on bleaching their skin!
i dont get it???
this is a system problem. it started through history with colonization. the ones that did the colonizing were always the superior ones whereas the locals who were being colonized were always the inferior.
though....that's not the only piece to the entire picture of course.
to understand a current problem, there are probably roots in history.....
It's what industry grew larger and faster.
I hear that plastic surgery is big in Asia. I guess you can say it's becoming a culture thing. I understand that one has to love themselves for who they are, but I don't see a big deal in minor cosmetic surgeries, especially to remove acne scars.
If they aren't making a big deal, neither am I.
Now, the getting the crease in there surgically, that's a different story. It's influence from the western world to what they think is pretty. I would say to embrace their Asian side because their are pretty.
Plastic surgery is big in the Americas too. Even in the Latino community. My mother is always talking about breast augmentation and liposuction. It's world wide.