Tuesday, 09 December 2008

  • I Don't Understand Why Girls Want Big Boobs

    This comment was from the post "Calling All Guys," answering the question, "What do you wish girls knew?"

    I find that women look most beautiful when they keep things simple.

    I don't understand why so many girls want to have big boobs. They might make people stare, but staring at something doesnt mean you think it's beautiful. If I saw a girl who was 7 feet tall, I'd stare for a few moments, but not because I found her attractive; just because I found her intriguing.



    In the end those things are all about apperance, and personality is the deciding factor. The biggest turn-offs for me are when girls think it's cool to hate on random people that they don't know well. Most girls don't do this, but some do and seem to think that's cool.

    In the end, there are very few things better than making a girl smile when that girl has a beautiful smile. Beautiful doesn't have to mean nice teeth (although that does help), it has more to do with the sincerity and happiness in their eyes and entire face in general.

    - forsaken_ficus

    Do girls place more of a value on a larger chest than guys do? If personality is the deciding factor, where does appearance fit in? Ie: Why do a great deal of girls still wear makeup?

Comments (59)

  • FallenReign@xanga

    I don't wear makeup. And I'm 5'10 but I'm still stared at a lot. Humongous boobs can't really...be all that...appealing. I'd rather just be balanced. 

  • Kristenmomof3@xanga

    big boobs are a pain in the butt.

    Half of shirts don't fit right because my boobs are too big.

    Hard to find nice bras

    Etc

    I would love size B or C boobs DD are just too big

  • rough_souls@xanga

    i saw that title and i knew i had to comment, haha


    i run. cross country, indoor and outdoor track. distance. i've always been smaller - i have a b cup. everyone who runs with me has a b cup or smaller.
    if i had big boobs, i would HATE it. most of my running friends agree. exercising with them seems horrid to us. finding tshirts? ayy. and no offense to those large-chested women but sometimes just having a large chest makes you look bigger overall, and that's not fair.
    small chested people unite with pride! woop wooppp
  • RedheadAblaze@xanga

    Cause some of us look hideous without the makeup ;)

  • TakingxOverxMe@xanga

    I wear a size C and I can't stand it.

    I don't know why people want bigger boobs..  They're so annoying.  They get in the way and strain my back.
    It's hard to find comfortable bras.

    I wish I wore a size B.

  • RedheadAblaze@xanga

    @rough_souls@xanga - Yeah I knew a girl who had to triple up on sports bras or those puppies would knock her out.  I have to say, I wasn't in the least bit jealous :)

  • ican__doit@xanga

    I don't know what all the fuss is about big breasts. I have Cs and most of the time, I don't care, but sometimes, it's so annoying. There are certain things that just look trashy if you have a big chest, and other things that you just can't wear! I wouldn't mind having a slightly smaller chest, considering that I have a small frame.

  • listen_to_The_Pixies@xanga

    WHY couldn't this post have been around after I spent so much energy arguing with a guy on here who claimed that all men love huge boobs no matter what and they will forsake a girl without them over one with, any day of the week.

    Fuck that guy.

  • X_bambii@xanga
    You've changed man

    big boobs suck --
    lol
    i used to have DD when i was BIGGER lol (bf still calls me fatty lol) :]
    now im down to 140ish and down to a C size.
    i used to work at hooters and at first the attention was cool but having to stand all the time makes your back hurt an big boobs dont help your back any trust me.
    you cant run hard lol cause youll get black eyes.
    lol
    im totally happy with my Cs lol my fiance is too sooo..i agree why would you CHANGE your boob size --if your bLeSsEd* then cool if not ACCEPT IT lol plus you could buy a new car for what you could buy new boobs SAVE YOUR MONEY :]
    lol

  • fuzzi_mushroom@xanga

    i have As and I wouldnt have them bigger for anything!


    I would hate hate hate to have big boobs (i even consider B to be big). I think it sucks for girls to have to lug around any boobs because its just baaaaaddd for the back, makes clothing harder to fit, and plus we have to find and buy good bras!! which can be expensive a lot of times..


    Ideally I'd honestly rather be completely flat- but then I'd definitly not fit into any girls/womens clothes because they don't make clothes to accomodate chestless girls


    I think guys def put a lot more emphasis on boob size..and their daily verbalizations of it puts pressure on girls. Of course Im sure some girls want bigger boobs just cuz they like them or for other reasons i cant fathom...but yeah.


    Or maybe guys once they pass the immature horny teenager phase dont care about boob size as much as the girl, but just voice it oh too often.

  • spidergrass@xanga

    I am a B-cup and it's probably the worst thing about me. All my friends are at least C's, most are bigger though. It sucks because when I'm with them, it's obvious all the guys look at them even though I would say that other than my chest, I'm just as pretty as them. I haven't had a boyfriend in a while so I guess right now I'm extra sensitive about it, but I would probably trade anything to have them be at least C's.

  • darkspawn101@xanga

    i think girls do value bigger boobs than guys do because females are very critical of each other.  a guy isnt going to notice much of a difference between clothes sizes, brands of random female accessories etc., but females will.  bigger boobs are probably more of a response to their own self-confidence issues than masculine attention.


    will bigger boobs help ladies get more attention?  i think so.  guys usually comment on extremities from my observation.  its either mosquito bites or mountain ranges.  but ultimately guys focus more on "scoring".  big boobs is a plus in most cases i suppose, but theres a lot more to females than just boobs.
  • missmorose@xanga

    I think the reason many women want bigger boobs is because well, of some(or a lot of) guys they have met placed a huge importance on appearance. Plus, if you're on a date with a guy, and he tends to look at women with a bigger rack, wont they feel kind of insecure/inferior? I'm just saying. Some people might not feel this way.

  • Cee_x33@xanga

    This post is really sweet, but unfortunately, I think this guy is in the minority. Most guys look at big boobs - not because they're freakish, because they're attracted to them. It's sad, but if you don't have them, you get passed over right away for those who do, even if the guy doesn't purposely do it.

    I don't see why so many girls complain "I don't know why girls want big boobs," and cite reasons why they're impractical - obviously girls aren't after them for their practicality, but their sex appeal. Most guys just like bigger boobs better, they're subconcious indicators of fertility, though that's probably not the guys' rationale for it.

  • Lil_Firefly_25@xanga

    I've actually had breast reduction. And you don't find many 17yr old girls having that surgery (I heard a few years back that the new fad for high school grads were breast implants). I am so much happier since my surgery, but I understand why some women want big boobs. I am happier smaller, but I know some girls who have A cups that would love to be bigger. In my mind I often go,"Why would you WANT to be bigger?!", but I know many women would ask me why I had my surgery...Well, past all the medical reasons, I had horrible self-esteem. It's all a matter of happiness.

    And many guys I talk to honestly aren't into big boobs-- they admit they prefer a nice handful. However, quite a few more guys I've noticed have a preference for a bigger butt. :P

  • la_faerie_joyeuse@xanga

    I love having big boobs because they're fun to play with, and I think they're aesthetically attractive.

    But I hate it at the same time, because it's HELL to find clothes (don't get me started on bras... they're never big enough. and dresses? NEVER.) Plus it's really painful to run, and the only sports bras that actually contain these things are super expensive. They will sag as I age, and there's not much I can do about it.

    @fuzzi_mushroom@xanga - "don't make clothes to accomodate chestless girls"

    What sort of stores are YOU going to, and where the fuck can I find one? Every store I've been to... seems to ONLY accomodate chestless girls.

    @rough_souls@xanga - Having a large chest generally only makes you look bigger overall if you don't have the tiny waist to balance it (or if you can't see that waist because your clothes don't fit right). For me, it's the latter, so I just pin up my shirts or visit the tailor. And hell, if it comes down to it and I actually look slimmer/better in lingerie than in street clothes, I'm totally fine with THAT.

  • xobeautyrushox@xanga

    Its all about being balanced. If you have a small frame, you'll most likely look best with smaller breasts, period.

    People with fake ones are kind of gross.

    But don't hate on the girls who are naturally voluptuous; were beautiful this way just like you're beautiful with your body type.

    It just so happens, however, that in a lot of societies the thin look is the requirement for fashion perfection, and the voluptuous look is the basis for sexual perfection. And what do most people encounter more often? The latter.

    Think of the voluptuous as the model for everything just below elite fashion society.

  • peacelove__CALLIE@xanga

    I dont know what to say about the breast thing, but I do know what to say about make up.

    For me, make up is not about looking prettier, or trying to impress someone (for I have no one to even impress!) it's about the artistic aspect of applying beautiful pigments to your face and transforming it into a work of art.

  • x_shadow_kitsune_x@xanga

    I think big boobs would be pretty tiring... I'm fine with mine, as they're proportional to my body (if that makes sense) haha. Yeah, I don't understand why many girls want big boobs. Maybe it's the grass-is-greener-on-the-other-side thing as well.

    I don't wear any makeup. I'd rather have people see me for who I am, not the mask that I hide behind. But I suppose it's nice to put some on on special occasions. It's nice to not look pale when taking photos.

  • sWiMpRiNcEsS@xanga

    i love my D's. not gonna lie. i think they're beautiful and people remember me by them almost as much as they remember me by my laugh or smile =P

    but having big boobs means im a little heavy elsewhere. so, while some guys like big boobs, other guys don't like the fat in the midsection. but they can't have it all! and i'm okay with that

    it's a balance, really.....you can't be stick thin and have my size boobs (well....maybe you can. but from what i've seen they dont get this big naturally)

  • AngelStarr@xanga

    i kinda wish mine were a tiny bit bigger, but i dont wish for big melons.. lol.. i just wish for something slightly bigger - cuz  im kinda flat.. but its cuz im thin. @_@.. my bf thinks so too. but he likes a nice butt on girls.. and he thinks my butt is perfect so he says my nice butt makes up for my lack of boobage.. hahaha.

    as for makeup.. i put it on daily because i think its really fun to apply.. i have a lot of fun doing it.. so its like - one of the highlights of my day.. lol.. i only do it for myself - not for anyone else. (even though ppl see it) the act of putting on makeup is for myself only.

  • nbdyzangel@xanga

    it honestly gets really tiring hearing people say "ohhhh i am sooooo glad that I'm an A/B cup....i would NEVER want bigger boobs"
    it's like this ongoing war. People with big boobs are saying "haha, you're small, so you're not appealing" and people with small boobs are saying "im sooo glad im not big!"

    i think we should all just get over ourselves and accept that every girl has different shaped boobs and different cup sizes. Oh and there are guys out there who loooove flat chested girls and guys who can't get enough of a handful.

    So can we please stop being so damn negative toward each other because it's the opposite of what we have?

    oh and  btw....growing up i was an A cup to a small B while my two best friends developed early and blossomed to C's and D's in jhs. Now I caught up and am between a C and a D, so yeah...I've been on both sides of the fence.

  • Eyes_Herself@xanga

    I am a size 38 A...respectively. That is stretching it.

    I really wish my chest cavity matched my chest. I'd be a nice size B instead of a longer strapped barely filled A.

    I know my boyfriend is lying when he says that he " Doesn't mind"
    Saying that you "don't mind" does not mean you like them.

    *sigh* I would love to actually wear a bathing suit without feeling disproportionate and lacking. Girls w/ boobies--donate!!! :)

  • stoopidxemilie@xanga

    "Why do a great deal of girls still wear makeup?"  Good question lol.  But like hardly anyone has answered it so far. :[


    Well nowadays I wear make up just to look practical yknow?  Without make up (and eyebrow-grooming) I would seriously look likea  guy. -_-  But yeah for me, I would wear make up to balance out with the ugliness of everything else haha.  My way of thinking is to have the attention go to my face which I can "fix" rather than the rest of my overweight body.


    But recently, I haven't been caring about what everyone else thinks. =]


    Lol all these comments contradict what my peers would say.  I'm proud of my C-cup =] . But if I were skinnier, my boobs would probably be a lot smaller anyway haha.

  • StarlitGoodbyes@xanga

    I'm a D cup.


    It's frustrating.


    But...you get what you get, right?

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