Fashion rules are meant to be broken! Many famous fashion icons suggest we dress to feel good about ourselves, not for rules, trends or anything else. I try to stick to this rule and ignore what others say about fashion dos and dont’s. I’m definitely guilty of mixing black and brown, wearing white after labor day (what are winter whites for?), and being generally quirky in my dress decisions. There are endless ways to break fashion rules and look good doing it! See my top ten break-able fashion rules and tips on how to do it well:
1. Mixing brown (or blue) with black: There’s a wrong way to do this and a right way to do this! As a general rule, if you’re going to mix them, try to choose a lighter brown (or blue) so there’s more contrast. Also, make it look intentional by tying the black and brown together with matching accessories.
2. Wearing white after Labor Day: This totally depends on where you live, the white garment in question and what you pair it with. Making your whites look winter-y can be tricky. As a general rule, adding tights, coats and layers to your winter white look is always a good idea!
3. Mixing metal jewelry: Gold, silver and bronze rings? No problem! Put on all of your rings and then rearrange/take them off as you see fit.
4. Wearing red as a redhead: Finding a red that contrasts the color of your hair is key. Take some tips from Nicole Kidman’s look: her strawberry blonde hair contrasts perfectly with her dark red dress which is why her look works so well!
5. Leggings as pants: As with any garments, make sure your leggings fit and are flattering to your body type. Avoid “camel toe” (please) with longer shirts, sweaters and tunics. Adding a subtle little heel won’t hurt anything either!
6. Long Hair After 30: First of all, 30 is too young to stop anything, especially if it’s only because others say you should do so. I just heard of this “rule” recently and I can see how it could apply to some people. But that’s just it: fashion rules are subjective. Some people can pull things off while others simply can not. That’s the beauty of it, we’re all different and can make different things work for us.
7. The older you get, the longer your hemline: Madonna is a great example of how to do this wrong. But for others, it doesn’t need to be so! Adding tights or layers (and not wearing a cheerleading skirt) can make a mini work for almost anyone. Again, it’s all about flattering what your mama gave you!
8. No watches after 6pm: Have you heard of this? Apparently it’s because folks shouldn’t look like they’re in a hurry after 6 pm. Whatever!
9. Shorts and Boots: Sometimes, a girl can look really confused wearing shorts with boots. Wearing non summer-y shorts that are darker in color with tights makes the shorts with boots look more flattering. Adding a longer sweater can tie the look together even better!
10. Red lipstick by day: There are so many shades of red, this can’t possibly be true. A bright red can be hard to pull off by day but as long as you’re not wearing a bold eyeshadow and blush, it’s usually A-OK.
What do you think, Lovelies? Do you agree with this list?
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One of the rules I love to break is the whole “you shouldn’t mix two different patterns together” the key to breaking this rule is to make sure the items have a similar color scheme and using accessories to pull them together perfectly.
orchid / 103 posts
@coffeeishappinessinacup@xanga - Totally true.
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I’m outing myself here, but I’m more than 30, and I still have long hair. I love the way it looks and I’m going to keep having long hair ’til I say it’s time to chop it all off.
sunflower / 300 posts
@heart_leigh@xanga - Atta girl! (Well, atta woman, but that sounds silly.) I’ve had short hair most of the last decade and finally have grown it out; there’s absolutely no way I plan on changing it any time soon no matter what sort of faux pas it might be, haha.
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1. Understandable, but brown/blue and black work so well together I don’t understand why you wouldn’t mix the two. Unless it’s a dark chocolate brown and a super dark blue where it looks like you thought they were both the same color or something.
2. I never understood the white after labor day rule. Isn’t every day of the year after labor day? Well at least after the last labor day, unless it restarts at the beginning of every year. But still why not? White looks good and if you wear it right who cares about labor day? I think that’s an old antiquated ritual that needn’t be adhered to anymore at all. People hardly even celebrate labor day anymore.
5. I don’t mind the camel toe…unless it’s just gigantic and disturbing. But what I dislike is the fact that most leggings girls wear are see through, especially when they bend over or do things that stretch the fabric a lot, and often times girls are either wearing thongs or no panties at all to avoid panty lines. So a long sweater that covers the no no areas is much appreciated, while short shirts with leggings seems off to me.
7. Recently I saw my mom wearing a pretty short mini skirt, and she’s around 51. Not entirely flattering at her age, but if done right I don’t see a problem with shorter skirts, no need for them to be below the knees as you get older.
8. That’s just weird heh.
10. Not really a fan of red lipstick at anytime of any day. But again I don’t see anything wrong with wearing it whenever some one wants to.
So yeah I guess I agree with you, those can all be broken heh.
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I still wear a watch after 6PM. I never heard of that rule before. >_<
I mean, yes…I have a smartphone and can always check the time on that.
I prefer looking at my watch…to tell the time. I’ve always had watches since elementary school, it’s a habit for me to wear.
peony / 1 posts
I love all these suggestions to break these rules! I personally have always felt conflicted about breaking the first rule because where I’m from people would always point out that I was “wearing black and brown”. I fully intend to continue breaking this rule only with the new added color of “shameless”.
I really enjoy the positive approach you take with your blog. It really takes your blog beyond the simple “Wear this because it looks pretty!” Instead you reach levels of motivation and empowerment a lot of women at any age could use.
Keep it up! You have a new fan in me.
Alaina Gonzalez
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I like this!
orchid / 103 posts
@alainag - Thank you so much Alaina! You made my day.
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I’ve never heard the watch rule before. In fact I clearly remember when I was in junior high/freshman year of high school formal watches + tennis bracelets being a popular look.
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the watch rule is new to me. but then i never wear one!
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I just dont know that ill ever be able to get over the brown with black thing.
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I need to buy a dressy watch D:
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i just love all of these.. i think they are all age appropriate.. as long as u look great in them.
just dont disclose your age.
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I saw an old lady, white hair plaited down to her arse. It was thick and healthy and man I was jealous. Also 40yos rocking mini skirts, with fabulous legs. Rules are for ugly people
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Red and pink. My friend once said to me that the only two people she’s ever seen pull off red and pink were me and Samantha from SATC. Think she must be blind.
peony / 1 posts
i was just wondering what are the boots the girl are wearing in the ‘leggings as pants’ picture? it’s just that I’ve been dying to find a pair just like those but i don’t know what theyre called exactly. any help would be great thanks!