Body piercings are an awesome way of expressing yourself — they’re less permanent than a tattoo, but more lasting than just wearing an outfit. Piercings can give added flair, edge, or whatever you’re looking for in as subtle or as noticeable of a way as possible. Are you considering taking the plunge and going for a piercing? Than look no further.
Here are some tips to consider before and after getting a piercing:
1. Do I really want it? Don’t do an impulse piercing. Although people always say, “Oh, it feels just like a pinch!”, let’s face it. Piercings can be rough. While the actual process of piercing varies in pain depending on the body part (for example, a nose piercing is way more painful than your earlobe), it’s the aftermath you have to think about. Everyone’s skin sensitivity is different but piercings require care and infections will most likely happen for everyone at some point. You want that stud in your upper cartilage? Make sure you want it enough to deal with the aftercare!
2. Where should I get it done? I was seven years old when I first got my lobes pierced. If my mother dragged me into a piercing and tattoo parlor, I probably would’ve ran away screaming crying. But Claire’s is not the way to go. I went to a family-run jewelry store when I was seven and although they were more professional than a chain like Claire’s, the best option is to go to the doctor for a young a child, and a piercing parlor if you’re older. I got my left cartilage done in February 2011 at Rockstar Body Piercing in Providence, RI. When I walked into the parlor, I asked why they refused to use a gun. They explained to me that using a gun on the cartilage, for example, would be like taking the end of a baseball bat and ramming it full-force into a window. The window doesn’t fall part to pieces, but it cracks and shatters like this. And that’s what happens to your cartilage, ladies. Stick with a needle and someone who’s had professional training.
3. How do I take care of it?
- Do not, I repeat, do not use you rubbing alcohol to clean your piercings. Use sterile saline wound wash, which you can find at your local pharmacy or here. Rubbing alochol is harsh and will likely aggravate the piercing, whereas saline wound wash is the purest way to disinfect.
- If you want to do more than disinfect and also heal your piercing if it’s struggling, than use tea tree oil, which you can also find at a pharmacy or here. This tip was passed down to me by a friend who has an industrial piercing (ouch, right?!) and she claims it works like a charm. When I used it on myself for my infected cartilage piercing, I was shocked. Swelling reduced by at least 70% after the first night and it was healed in a few days time. Put a few drops of it on a q-tip and rub it around the front and the back of the piercing (don’t take the earring out!) and you should be set. It’ll smell very strongly like mint and probably leave a white film over the area, but this stuff is magic, I swear.
- I don’t know why I was ever told to do this, but if your piercer tells you to twist the earring in the new piercing, they’re wrong. Do not twist the earring(s) in your new piercing(s); it is essentially a raw flesh wound. Let it heal! If you go to a parlor, they’re going to use an earring made of surgical steal — not cheap, faux-silver that could get “stuck” in the ear — and, therefore, there’s no need for it to be twisted repeatedly.
4. What else should I do before I go get one? Check out the Association of Professional Piercers for all the information you need to make a thorough decision. Make sure to consult with the piercing parlor over the type of metal they use in their earrings, how they pierce (go for needle, not gun!), and their experience level/ training. Don’t let a person with a huge amount of piercings or tattoos scare you off. This is their job and they’re good at it!
What has your experience been like with piercings, Lovelies?
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Needles are always the way! Guns are bad bad bad.
Also, don’t use tea tree or that sterile wash to clean piercings. Leave them the hell alone, except for cleaning once/twice a day with a sea salt soak.
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I heard from a professional piercer that tea tree oil is super harsh.
hydrangea / 59 posts
I use tea tree oil ONLY on completely healed piercings. i.e. only on ones that I got several years ago. On a healed piercing I think it seems fine because it is not irritating and it helps make your piercings smell fresh and minty in the event that water sometimes hangs out for too long behind your earring(s) (in my case I have a row of 4 on each lobe). However I imagine that tea tree oil on an open and healing piercing would sting and might do more damage than help. Don’t get me wrong, I love tea tree oil for my existing piercings, but on my new 3 cartilage piercings from a week ago I am not getting anywhere near them with anything but a simple sterile wash.
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Almost all of my piercings were impulse piercings. lol
I would strike numero uno, personally. They aren’t permanent.
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I remember when I got my latest tattoo done they were in the parlor talking about tea tree oil. (They had just gotten a shipment.) You can use it for piercing because it is good for wounds and has a super small chance of allergic reaction. But make sure it’s diluted, since as LaughOutLoudLauren said it is harsh when it’s full strength.
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Tea Tree Oil is fantastic for many things! My best bud is a tattoo artist and piercer, and he actually gives sample bottles to all his clients. I use it to clean all my earrings.
And GREAT tip on twisting too!!! Many people dont know that!
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When I was researching piercings before I got my nose done, I read that piercing guns are also really unsanitary and more likely to cause infection. From what I read, because piercing guns are so harsh, blood and tissue get stuck inside in places that are difficult to clean.
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Never never ever never ever ever ever get pierced with a gun. They are unsanitary and can transmit all kinds of diseases like HIV, the guns are never sterilized and are only simple “cleaned” which does not get rid of all bacteria. Piercers who work in tattoo parlors and the like have trained for years on how to do it, that person at the mall has no training in piercing and anyone can buy a gun.
Also like mentioned in the post, it’s like shoving a baseball bat through a window. While a needle is sharp and can pierce through skin and cartilage seamlessly, guns rely on pressure to shove the blunt end of a stud through where you want it and can cause excess scar tissue and damage.
Never a piercing gun!
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i’ve had three in each lobe and my nose done three times now with a gun and no problems. not really sure what the problem is. if they were really that unsanitary and destructive they wouldn’t be allowed.
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I really like tattoos and piecings, but I only have 1 tattoo and more piercings because it’s a lot cheaper and less permanent lol. I got my first tattoo when I was only 15. Definitley way too young, but oh well. I have 2 lip rings sideby side (although I dont wear them too often as they can bother my gums… :/ lol), belly button, nose, 7 in my ears, and my tongue. Although I’d like to get more soon, I doubt I will actually get them as I plan on getting a better job soon in the school district, and I cant have those in. So.. Oh well
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@thepsychoticraccoon@xanga - Oh god.. o.O That’s so disgusting… :/ I am pretty sure I got needles for all of my piercings, except my ears when I was younger. That’s good to know though, thanks
I will definitley keep that in mind whenever getting a piercing and a gun is used lol.
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I had the gun for all my piercings and I was perfectly fine, and I use rubbing alcohol and twist my piercings… but I’ve never had a problem, even with my skin being sensitive haha.
And now I want more piercings haha
daffodil / 1615 posts
@Marica0701@xanga - Yeah, I had a gun for both my lower earlobe piercings (first one when I was six, second one when I was eight, because I was a baller in elementary school) and my cartilage, and everything turned out just fine. No infections or anything like that. I’m fairly certain I used rubbing alcohol and I know I twisted my piercings religiously, and everything healed up like it should have.
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I’ve had the same nose piercing for the last 6 years pierced by my ex-boyfriends’ sister. Never infected, no problems. She also took good precautionary care though such as sterilizing the needle in alcohol & some other piercing stuff, might of even burned the needle to super disinfect (not 100% sure though). Everyone has a different experience!
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I currently have 15 piercings (5 ear, two cartilage, double dimples, monroe, septum, and 4 microdermals). I’ve had my microdermals on my hips for nearly 2 years, but recently the bottom two have gotten very! irritated. The top came off on one, and in the days before I bought a new top I watched it fiercely to make sure no problems came up, and then the last day (as I made time to go out and get a top the next day, lol) the darn thing went under my skin! I was able to get it back out properly again but ever since then its been a pain in the hip. The one on the other side also got irritated when I tried to change a top on it, and its been very loose ever since then. I’ve done my best to keep them clean and allow them to stay irritation free yet they still are giving me trouble.
I will have to try that tea tree oil, that sounds perfect for my problem. If that doesn’t work I’m about to get these suckers removed! Too much darn trouble lol
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@articulate_silence@xanga - Try calendula! It’s dandelion extract. You’re supposed to put it in your tea, I think, but I used calendula water topically when the salt bath wasn’t clearing up the problem.
I got my cartilage pierced 2010/1 and it got not-quite-severely infected a month later. A Q-Tip of calendula, twice a day got rid of the swelling in one night, and healed it up in just two days. Strangely, I’m actually allergic to dandelions, but the calendula water I used provided immediate pain relief and reduced swelling shortly thereafter. The calendula oil, on the other hand, I am just as allergic to as the plant, but I assume it would work the same on someone who isn’t allergic to the parent plant.
daisy / 727 posts
I got my ears pierced with a piercing gun twice, and got infections both times. The first time, my ear actually grew over my earring back and the second time it just hurt really bad. The first time I was three and the second time I was ten or something. I got them done recently, probably about two years ago and have had ZERO problems with my ears. I got them done at a piercing parlor by this dude named Stephen Von Frankenstein, and he was totally awesome. I cleaned my piercings with salt water and just anti-bacterial soap. I also left them in for three months, no less than that because that’s what he told me. I would never go to Claire’s or whatever now. My first piercing was done at one of those random mall kiosks and the second time was at Claire’s. I looked up reviews on Yelp, and that’s how I chose my person who did mine, or at least the place, I got lucky that he was the one who ended up doing them. He also does my friends piercings and she swears by him. We didn’t know each other until after I had mine done, but she has plugs, a septum piercing, and her nipples pierced. I always tell everyone to go to a piercing parlor. They are so much more sanitary and careful. Those guns just have bacteria building up in them.
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I really don’t think you know enough about the subject to write a whole article about it. You’re giving horrible advice. Piercing parlor where they use guns? Tea tree oil? Here’s what you should know if you are thinking about a piercing:
Go to a place and GET IT DONE WITH A NEEDLE. Watch them take the needle out of the sterile packaging. Make sure they clean the area with alcohol before piercing. Make sure they use a fresh ring/stud that comes from a sterile package. Make sure its a clean place and highly reputable (most places have websites or ask friends, pierced coworkers, etc.) Make sure you like the piercer. If they seem sloppy, rushed, impersonal, don’t have them pierce you- they will do a bad job. It should smell and almost look like a dental office inside of the piercing room. That is how sterile it should be. Under no circumstances should you ever go to a chain like Claires or Piercing Pagoda. They do not know what they are doing (my lobe in my left ear I got when I was a kid is fucked because of them- it is slanted downwards.) Bacteria and viruses can live in those guns and they are never 100% sterile. Under no circumstances are you to ever put hydrogen peroxide or rubbing alcohol or anything else on the piercing, it will just irritate the hell out of it. Soak it in warm salt water. Go out and buy sea salt and distilled water, mix it up and just pour some in a mug and microwave it each time- it’s most convenient that way. Tap water and bottled water contains minerals you don’t want. Clean around it with a q-tip early on to remove crust, blood, wax, anything gross. After it stops doing that, yes you SHOULD move the piercing around a tiny bit, depending on which type of piercing it is, to ensure that THE HOLE DOES NOT CLOSE AROUND THE PIERCING. It keeps it nice and loose and free flowing in there. Also it helps remove any blood and crust build up inside. If you smack it or sleep on it the wrong way and it aches, soak it in salt water, it honestly makes the dull achiness go away. Also, if it feels itchy like its infected, salt water and a good clean to remove any build up literally makes it stop. Also, make sure your piercer uses a longer ring/stud than would normally fit your ear because of swelling. I know a girl with an industrial that straight up got one that fit her ear (like I have now cuz it’s been healed for like 6 years) and she has these disgusting skin bumps that healed OVER TOP of the balls because the swelling had nowhere to spread out. Piercings also take way longer to fully heal than they say they do- my rook is still healing and it’s been over a year and a half. It took my conch almost 3 years to get to the point where I can smack it around and it doesn’t hurt. Not that I do that, but like, accidentally you know… I’ve got 10 piercings and they’re all completely worth it. Some are easier than others. My industrial was probably the least painful and easiest to deal with because it’s just 2 cartilage piercings (it just looks bad ass.) Everything else is thick cartilage which snaps and crackles when you pop it with a needle… Rook is probably the most painful and most pain in the ass aftercare. Choose wisely!
sunflower / 300 posts
@youarethepretender@xanga - I was literally about to say the exact same thing! Tea tree oil can aggravate open wounds, which a piercing is (an open puncture wound).
sunflower / 300 posts
Dn’t use saline solution; use a sea salt soak and only when necessary. Saline solution’s salt content isn’t in your control and can have extra chemicals. It’s best to just let things settle on their own by taking showers and, at most, letting the water run over the piercing. I never used anything special on my piercings besides occasional sea salt soaks on my nostrils when I had bacterial buildups and consulted a professional.
Also (and this just a terminology thing so it’s not super important!), they’re usually referred to as studios, not parlors
The artist I always go to says, “Studios are for body modification, parlors are for ice cream,” hahaha.
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Never use a gun! Get your piercings done somewhere reputable with a sterilised needle, and make sure you see your piercer take out a fresh needle before you get it done. I use sea salt and warm water to clean my piercings – NEVER use the cleaning solution from places like Claire’s.
I don’t see a problem with impulse piercings though. All my piercings apart from my first lobe piercings were impulse ones and I love them all. I just turned up at the salon and got them done on a whim. Piercings aren’t permanent. You can take them out and they’ll heal over. They’re not like tattoos in that they’re not there for life.
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Love that dangling leaf earring!! I will need to scour he sores for one like that/!!
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I got my first piercing (and only for that matter) with a gun when I was a kid. I always had this weird lump in my ear lobe right on the piercing (it’s hard to describe but it would be slightly painful if i were to knead my ear lobe but wasn’t visible). After 5 years both of my piercing became infected, not horribly but it wasn’t pleasant. After the infection the weird slightly painful lump was gone. I suspect it had something to do with the initial piercing.
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yesyesyes!
i agree with this article 100%!
it’s about time someone gets recognized for real information.
I worked at piercing pagoda for a year and HATED IT.
i actually would reject cartilage piercings.
told them to go to a shop where they’d use a needle.
I only pierced a cartilage about twice. cause it’s so bad
and take it from me ladies,
NO ONE CLEANS THE GUNS.
i would make sure to at least wipe it all down with the alcohol wipes,
but seriously? it’s just what you use on your hands
NOT STERILE
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Rubbing alcohol isn’t bad because it’s “harsh”, alcohol is bad because it kills cells good and bad. So you don’t want to be eliminating the good cells that are taking part in the healing process.
I think as far as cleaning goes it really depends on what you prefer and what your skin prefers. Obviously the tea tree oil worked for this poster and her friend. I used baby soap on my labret piercing and that worked just fine. I’ve used iodine on my nose piercing and that worked just fine. I’d say warm salt water is the safest way to go because it should agree with anyone’s skin and alcohol should definitely be avoided. And don’t bother with the specialty piercing cleansers that parlors sell. They’re an overpriced gimmick when warm salt water will work just as well.
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I LOVE Rockstar Body Piercing. I went there for my lip piercing and I am going back soon for a cartilage orbital, a rook piercing, and conch piercings (not all at once, of course). They are seriously so professional, well-trained, and sterile. Like @disappearingactxx@xanga said, it looks and smells like a freaking dentists office in their piercing rooms. I also love that they only use internally-threaded jewelry only. Can you imagine what damage an externally-threaded piece of jewelry does to a brand new wound? Eek.
Another tip is that if the piercing does get infected, DON’T TAKE IT OUT! If you remove the jewelry, the hole closes and the infection gets trapped. If the infection gets trapped, you have no way to clean the wound or to flush it out; I’ve heard of people growing small abscesses and needing to have them lanced because they removed their infected piercing. Leave the piercing in so that your body has a hole to push all the junky stuff out. Start cleaning the infected piercing like its a brand new piercing – use a q-tip in warm salt water (sea salt, preferably) to clean away the junk a few times a day, soak your ear in warm salt water, etc. Assuming you aren’t immunocompromised, with proper care and hygiene you should be able to fight off the infection. NEVER use Neosporin or anything similar – it can get into the wound and gunk it up, among other negative effects.
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For those of you who don’t know, a ‘saline solution’ is salt water. I guess if you’re buying it at a store, it could maybe have other stuff added, but when they say to wash/rinse a piercing with it, they mean salt water.
One thing to make people aware of – the stink. The correct word escapes me right now. The bigger the gauge, the worse it is. I have an industrial piercing and due to the size and shape of my ear, it is extremely difficult to clean it thoroughly, and it seems like it doesn’t matter how much I clean it anyway.
It bled non-stop for about seven hours the next morning. I finally decided to shift the bar and that fixed it, but not before staining my pillow. The scabbing and gunk kept sticking to the bar. My ear also did start growing back, down the bar. That was fun. Not. Oh, and learning to sleep with my head cradled just so. Honestly, with as much of a pain as this piercing has been, I’m not really sure why I’ve kept it.
@thepsychoticraccoon@xanga - I guess some places might re-use them, but I think even the places that do use guns are supposed to use a new one, straight from the package, for each person.
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@Babd@xanga - Oh thank you! I will have to try that out. Luckily they’ve calmed down with some TLC lately but they’re always touchy, so I’ll have to try that out.
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I got my earlobes done at Claire’s as a kid and they got infected and sealed up. Then they did it again and they were fine. Then the cartilage (with a gun, at Claire’s). Then two more (same) and my cartilage is definitely broken. Then I did my second holes in the earlobe at home with a safety pin about a year ago and that worked out fine. Also got my belly button done but the shop ran out of the correct jewelry so they used a bent tongue ring or something and did not tell me this until AFTER it was done.
I pretty much did everything wrong Lol.
sunflower / 405 posts
just get an ear cuff and the magnetic ones that’s pain-infection-and-regret free
sunflower / 397 posts
When I first got my cartilage done it was with a gun and it hurt like a bitch. I got it redone 2 years later with a needle and it’s so much better. I used to really want snake bites and I still kind of do, but now that I’m almost an adult and will be heading off to college and the working world, I don’t think I’ll do it. I still love and will always want one though! I’ll make up for that with getting tattoos. (: