One Lovely asks:
My ex and I are still very close, but he has a new girlfriend. Should we limit our communication even though now it’s platonic?
Breaking up is never easy to do, and sometimes it’s even harder when you cut the other person out of your life. Which is why so many failed relationships often turn into friendships…with mixed results. And it all becomes even more complicated when a new guy or girl enters the scene. So is it OK to remain friends with your now-taken ex?
I don’t see anything inherently wrong with being friends with an ex, even if he has a new lady. But just because you’re comfortable with it doesn’t mean that she (or even he) will be. You need to try and be friends with both of them if you want to attempt to make this work. Invite them out as a couple, and hopefully she’ll get to know you and see that you’re not trying to take her guy. (However, if you are, or even if you still have feelings for him, back off. Now.) Maybe you and the new girl will even wind up being friends!
However, if she doesn’t like you keeping in contact with her boyfriend, the respectful thing to do is stop. Even if you think it’s controlling, it’s their relationship, not yours, and you have no right to try and shake it up. Perhaps she’ll come around some day, but in the beginning stages of a relationship, emotions and trust can be fragile. Just don’t be offended, and accept whichever choice they decide is right for them.
What do you think, Lovelies? Is it OK to be friends with a taken ex?
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I could never do it.
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I can’t imagine why you would even want to. Unless you guys have perfected the ordeal of the break-up and somehow have no lingering feelings or animosity towards one another. Talk to him about it. And if you don’t want to be friends with his new girl, don’t bother. It won’t end well for either you or your ex if you’re not willing to befriend the new girlfriend as well.
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Friendship is between the individuals. The new girlfriend has no say in their friendship. If the girlfriend doesn’t like it, then the boyfriend can choose what is more important to him, the friend or the girlfriend.
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It’s not up to you, it’s up to him. I mean, he’s the one who’s got a girlfriend who’s probably going to have issues with the situation, so just stay friends and see where it goes, but be prepared to be sidelined a great deal, and be prepared to deal with a huge amount of jealousy from her. You guys have a history from before her – you’ve been romantically involved, and you’ll probably be the one he goes to when he’s having problems. That’s a lot to deal with when you’re newly involved with someone. If it becomes difficult, you just need to be prepared for him not to pick you.
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I honestly can’t see the purpose. There are plenty of amazing guys out there to date or awesome girls out there if you just need a friend while you let the relationship go. But if you can’t let him go, you’ll never move on.
peony / 1 posts
my name is sonia,i want to thank God for using Dr
Okoase to bless my life,recover my job and most especially for using him to
recover my ex back.I dated this man for almost five years now and we will
preparing to get married but something happen and every thing disorganized,since
then i have been looking for solution on how i will get him back until my friend
introduce me to this man Dr Okoase a great spell caster ,who cast a spell for me
to recover him back,and not only that he also help me to recover my job
back.Sir, I must say you are a great spell caster,please world help me to thank
this Dr Okoase on his email: templeofgreatspell@gmail.com
please sir keep your good work because people need your helping hand in there
lives, i have never believed in a spell caster cause most of them are scammed
but Dr Okoase prove to me that he is not among them that this is what he was
born to do for people by making them happy. once more contact him for help
through his email: templeofgreatspell@gmail.com sir
i will be coming again but this time i am not coming for love nor job but money
spell and i know you will also help me cause you have been helping.
peony / 1 posts
My Name is CHARRY BILL.I will love to share my
testimony to all the people in the forum cos i never thought i will have my
boyfriend back and he means so much to me..The boy i want to get marry to left
me 4 weeks to our wedding for another girl..,When i called him he never picked
my calls,he deleted me on his facebook and he changed his facebook status from
married to Single…when i went to his place of work he told his boss he never
want to see me..I lost my job as a result of this cos i cant get myself
anymore,my life was upside down and everything did not go smooth with my
life…I tried all i could do to have him back to all did not work out until i
met a Man when i Travel to Africa to execute some business have been developing
some years back..I told him my problem and all have passed through in getting
him back and how i lost my job…he told me he gonna help me…i don’t believe
that in the first place.but he swore he will help me out and he told me the
reason why my boyfriend left me and also told me some hidden secrets.i was
amazed when i heard that from him..he said he will cast a spell for me and i
will see the results in the next couple of days..then i travel back to US the
following day and i called him when i got home and he said he’s busy casting
those spells and he has bought all the materials needed for the spells,he said
am gonna see positive results in the next 2 days that is Thursday…My boyfriend
called me at exactly 12:35pm on Thursday and apologies for all he had done ..he
said,he never knew what he’s doing and his sudden behavior was not intentional
and he promised not to do that again.it was like am dreaming when i heard that
from him and when we ended the call,i called the man and told him my husband
called and he said i haven’t seen anything yet… he said i will also get my job
back in 3 days time..and when its Sunday,they called me at my place of work that
i should resume working on Monday and they gonna compensate me for the time
limit have spent at home without working..My life is back into shape,i have my
boyfriend back and we are happily married now with kids and i have my job back
too.This man is really powerful..if we have up to 20 people like him in the
world,the world would have been a better place..he has also helped many of my
friends to solve many problems and they are all happy now..Am posting this to
the forum for anybody that is interested in meeting the man for help.you can
mail him to finalsolutionspell@gmail.com I
cant give out his number cos he told me he don’t want to be disturbed by many
people across the world..he said his email is okay and he’ will replied to any
emails asap..hope he helped u out too..good luck: finalsolutionspell@gmail.com.
ONCE AGAIN HIS EMAIL ADDRESS IS: finalsolutionspell@gmail.com
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i am hear to give testimony of how i got back my husband,
we got married for more than 6 years and have gotten two kids. thing were going
well with us and we are always happy. until one day my husband started to behave
in a way i could not understand, i was very confused by the way he treat me and
the kids. later that month he did not come home again and he called me that he
want a divorce, i asked him what have i done wrong to deserve this from him, all
he was saying is that he want a divorce that he hate me and do not want to see
me again in his life, i was mad and also frustrated do not know what to do,i was
sick for more than 3 weeks because of the divorce. i love him so much he was
everything to me without him my life is incomplete. i told my sister and she
told me to contact a spell caster, i never believe in all this spell casting of
a thing. i just want to try if something will come out of it. i contacted templeofgreatspell@yahoo.com for
the return of my husband to me,he told me that my husband have been taken by
another woman, that she cast a spell on him that is why he hate me and also want
us to divorce. then they told me that they have to cast a spell on him that will
make him return to me and the kids, they casted the spell and after 3days my
husband called me and he told me that i should forgive him, he started to
apologize on phone and said that he still live me that he did not know what
happen to him that he left me. it was the spell that he Dr Okoase casted on him
that make him come back to me today,me and my family are now happy again today.
thank you Dr Okoase for what you have done for me i would have been nothing
today if not for your great spell. i want you my friends who are passing through
all this kind of love problem of getting back thier husband, wife , or ex
boyfriend and girlfriend to contact Dr Okoase on his email address via: templeofgreatspell@yahoo.com .
and you will see that your problem will be solved without any
delay.ANGELA BRUSE
peony / 1 posts
my name is Benny
i will like to share my testimony to
you all.i got married to my husband about 2 year ago we start having problems at
home like we stop sleeping on the same bed,fighting about little things he
always comes home late at night,drinking too much and sleeping with other women
out side.i have never love any man in my life except him.he is the father of my
child and i don’t want to loose him because we have worked so hard together to
become what we are and have today.few month ago he now decided to live me and
the kid,being a single mother can be hard sometimes and so i have nobody to turn
to and i was heart broken.i called my mom and explain every thing to her,my
mother told me about DR.AIGBO how he helped her solve the problem between her
and my dad i was surprise about it because they have been without each other for
three and a half years and it was like a miracle how they came back to each
other.i was directed to DR.AIGBO on his email: spiritualhomeofproblem@gmail.com
and explain everything to him,so he promise me not to worry that he will cast a
spell and make things come back to how we where so much in love again and that
it was another female spirit that was controlling my husband.he told me that my
problem will be solved within two days if i believe i said OK.So he cast a spell
for me and after two days my love came back asking me to forgive him.i Am so
happy now. so that why i decided to share my experience with every body that
have such problem contact Dr AIGBO the great spell caster on his email address:
spiritualhomeofproblem@gmail.com
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My name is cheney from uk. I never believed in love spells or magic until i met this spell caster once when i went to Africa in February this year on a business summit. I meant a man who’s name is DR.EGOGO he is really powerful and could help cast spells to bring back one’s gone, lost, misbehaving lover and magic money spell or spell for a good job or luck spell .I’m now happy & a living testimony cos the man i had wanted to marry left me 3 weeks before our wedding and my life was upside down cos our relationship has been on for 3years. I really loved him, but his mother was against us and he had no good paying job. So when i met this spell caster, i told him what happened and explained the situation of things to him. At first i was undecided, skeptical and doubtful, but i just gave it a try. And in 7 days when i returned to Canada, my boyfriend (now husband) called me by himself and came to me apologizing that everything had been settled with his mom and family and he got a new job interview so we should get married. I didn’t believe it cos the spell caster only asked for my name and my boyfriends name and all i wanted him to do. Well we are happily married now and we are expecting our little kid, and my husband also got the new job and our lives became much better. His email is egogotemple@yahoo.com
peony / 2 posts
My Name is Velvet from Toronto Canada ,what a wonderful Miracle from Dr Love spell caster , I went over seas after being in a relationship with my partner for a year and half and stayed in contact frequently with him while I was gone. When I returned home he told me that he didn’t think it was going to work between us, I think there maybe another women but I know there is still love there until i meet Dr Love drlovespellcaster@yahoo.com tel : 2348038096203 who rescue me from Nightmare and help me to get my Love back between 24hrs ,i was so happy because i dont believe my partner would come back to me again but thanks Dr Love for the wonderful Miracle work he did to save my Love Life .
peony / 2 posts
My Name is Velvet from Toronto Canada ,what a wonderful Miracle from Dr Love spell caster , I went over seas after being in a relationship with my partner for a year and half and stayed in contact frequently with him while I was gone. When I returned home he told me that he didn’t think it was going to work between us, I think there maybe another women but I know there is still love there until i meet Dr Love drlovespellcaster@yahoo.com tel : 2348038096203 who rescue me from Nightmare and help me to get my Love back between 24hrs ,i was so happy because i dont believe my partner would come back to me again but thanks Dr Love for the wonderful Miracle work he did to save my Love Life .
peony / 1 posts
Thanks to abuluspiritualhome@yahoo.com for At last my happiness has been restored by a Man named Dr ABULU ,, my name’s are miss KIRSTEN i want every one on this site or forum to join me thank this DR ABULU for what he just did for me and my kids . my story goes like this i was married to my husband for 5 years we were living happily together for this years and not until he traveled to Italy for a business trip where he met this prostitute who be witched he to hate me and the kids and love her only so when my husband came back from the trip he said he does not want to see me and my kids again so he drove us out of the house and he was now going to Italy for to see that other woman. so i and my kids were now so frustrated and i was just staying with my mum and i was not be treating good because my mama got married to another man when my after my daddy death so the man she got married to was not treating i and my kids well so i was so confuse and i was searching for a way to get my husband back to me and my kids so one day as i was browsing on my computer i saw a testimony about this MAN DR ABULU of abuluspiritualhome@yahoo.com shared on the internet by a lady and it impress me too so i also think of give it a try at first a was scared by when i think of what me and my kids are passing through so i contact him and he told me to stay calm for just two days that my husband shall be restored to me and to my best surprise i received a call from my husband on the second day asking after the kids and i called Dr Abulu and he said your problems are solved my child so this was how i get my family back after a long stress of brake up by an evil lady so with all this help from DR ABULU of abuluspiritualhome@yahoo.com i want you all on this forum to join me to say a huge thanks to DR ABULU and i will also advice for any one in such or similar problems or any kind of problems should also contact him for help
Good bye
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hey my name is Anita, i have been in a relationship with my girlfriend for over 3years now, but some eight months ago she told me profoundly that our relationship was going no were, this destabilized me cos i loved her with everything i got, she was the more reason i left California to Texas cos i wanted to be very close to her but it turned out that she didn’t care about what i felt for her cos she met a rich dude that blinded her with money, i loved her so much that i was suffering from depression after she dumped me, a told a friend on-line about my relationship shamble, then she advice i consulted a spell caster who will cast a spell that will bring hr back to me, i never for one day believed in spell casting being that there was no more alternative i gave it a shot and contacted Dr Aziba on Azibaspellltemple@gmail.com (my spell caster) he told me not to worry that my ex will come back to me after casting a spell on her, i never believed not until the fourth day after the spell casting my ex called me and apologized for the wrong way she had treated me a very happy and fulfilled man today cos i have the woman of my dream back to me, all thanks to Dr Aziba, my friend i advice you to contact him for anything at all, he will certainly be of help to you, here is his email addresss:azibaspellltemple@gmail.com. thanks for reading.
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Thanks to this great man of spirit called Dr Samura which I don’t know how to thank him for the good work he has Don for me and family which I want to share my testimony with to you all so I was married to Hassan Moel and my name is Julie deshields for six years now he left me with two kids with know reason which I don’t know what to do.so one day i was in my friends place when I exposed my pain to her about my depression which I have be looking for who to help me out of it then my friend called me closer to her self telling me on how she got this great man of spirit who helped her found her way to get her husband back then I ask of his contact she quickly go and get her computer and gave me his Email ID and his number so,that is how I contacted him for a help. And now am so happy with my family and with a happy home if you are in such pain kindly Via Email SAMURATELLERSPELL100@YAHOO.COM or call +2347030410643 have faith in him and he will help you
Julie Deshields