Let me just preface this post by stating that I am a genius. Geniuses look at bleach and think “Just brush it in and you’ll be blonde and that about sums it up.” Little do geniuses know that their scalp is waving the white flag, begging that nasty squeeze bottle full of death to cease fire. This tragedy, made possible by a measly paycheck and Sally’s Beauty Supply, didn’t even cover my entire hair length. And then I put some red on it? My first dye job was a disaster.
After the jump is a photo of my hair’s meltdown that took a great deal of courage for me to publicize.
In conjunction with my earlier hair evolution post, this post takes the cake in embarrassment.
Although you can’t tell from this picture, the color of my tresses ranged from bright red to dark brown because my friend wasn’t able to cover my hair entirely with bleach. After bleaching, she brushed in this fiery red color that looked beautiful but only on several lucky portions of strands. The worst part of my experience that qualifies me as the poster child for “Don’t Try This At Home” was that I WAS DIGGING IT. I finally departed from my boring dark brown look… a little too much.
The bleach tragedy burned initially, but the real consequence came later when chunks of my scalp came out while I was at Warped Tour – the one day I was supposed to look hot and punk and stuff and bag my awkward self a boyfriend so we could listen to AFI, Finch, and NOFX and be together 4ever. I live an unfair life.
That summer was also the summer before my senior year and I got my graduation pictures taken with this hair. My high school colors were red and white, meaning my hair sickeningly clashed with my graduation gown.
I also got my driver’s license that summer as well. My face was sunburned from, well, living in Texas, and the picture I carried in my wallet for a year looked like some had splattered red paint on my license. So many accomplishments occurred during my redheaded-ness that it’s almost eerie.
Towards the end of my senior year, I ended up chopping my hair off and dying it black, mimicking Karen O’s hairstyle at the time. Before I finally landed on a look that complimented my face’s shape and complexion, I dabbled in Manic Panic too many times, and that stuff rubs off on EVERYTHING, EVERYWHERE.
Despite the ridicule towards my former self for this dye job, I still remember how I felt in my glory days of new hair color. I can’t remember being so pleasantly unimpeded by beauty standards and “appropriate” looks. For the first time, I did what I wanted with my hair and was so sublimely happy with the unconventional outcome. And during high school? My recollections are foggy but I was generally self-conscious and fearful of standing out. To have colored to my hair wildly and strut down the hallways unabashedly in a botched dye job was uncharacteristic. Looking back, I’m so proud of myself.
This is my hair now, with the same super teethy smile. I’ve been back to my natural color for some time but now with a few white hairs I’m holding fast to. I get bored often and change it up, but I learned my lesson about bleach and colors that don’t belong near my follicles. I’ll never retreat to that state of genius again.
Was your first dye job a disaster? Any funny stories or pictures?
daffodil / 1601 posts
Gosh, I was thirteen I think. My sister had this really bitchy friend that kept ragging on my red hair because it’s something, “ugly old ladies have.” So naturally like a moody thirteen year old girl I started to get down on myself about my hair color. My sister’s bitchy friend convinced me to get a box of blonde hair dye and jokes on her because that shit just made my hair more red!
I don’t do much to my hair anymore. People get pissed when I mention coloring my hair because, “Waaaaaahn, red hair is so special!” It is, and I would never change if from red but I like to get high lights in the summer and low lights in the fall just like everyone else (who colors their hair). I never make big changes, just deepen or lighten a smidgen. Haven’t done one of those whole head deals since my senior year of high school.
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I am not sure if my first dye jobs actually count. I used to use clear dye before I went through my red phase. My hair has been all kinds of shades of red.
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The first time I dyed my hair, I didn’t have my mom’s permission and I dyed it blue.
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I was in 6th grade and I thought i was so PUNX and cool and Avril Lavigne was my idol so i wanted pink streaks in my hair. I bought highlite kit you can get at walmart for like $10. my mom helped me out but it didnt even come out pink, more like random orangey streaks in my hair -___-
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My first dye job was actually one of my best — I wanted to go a deep burgundy, and because it wasn’t too light of a color, it took well and I felt like a goddess for a good six months. Then came the “omg blonde highlights are SOOO cool” phase, which wouldn’t have been so bad… if I hadn’t chopped off my hair to my ears and added the blonde highlights to red hair. I looked like I was on fire… all the time. -____-
…but yeah I have bright pink highlights so idk whatevs ratchet yolo
orchid / 197 posts
never dyed my hair and never will. i don’t think i’d look good in any other color!
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I am a dye virgin. . . never dyed my hair. . .EVER!
I was thinking if I ever get locks that I would do a dark rinse which just makes the hair an even color black on top of your natural color. I think jet black dread locks are pretty hawt!
daffodil / 1525 posts
dyed it red and light brown and black throughout HS. went fine, my mom helped.
bleached it this past january. also went surprisingly fine (after toner!). and then i’ve done it purple, blue, pink, and orange (although it came out red since the pink didn’t totally fade) since. stopped bleaching the roots though since i want it to grow out naturally :3
tulip / 13 posts
I was bored and used a box of blonde hair dye on my (almost black) hair! I also bleached my eyebrows… thinking they wouldn’t disappear if i put a bit of dye on them! Then I ended up making some bangs to cover up for that. Unfortunately my roots ended up lighter than the ends because I forgot to account for the heat of my scalp making the bleach work faster.
I ended up with an orangeish-brown color that I kept for a whopping 5 months until I went to the salon and had my hair professionally dyed.
Whoops!
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I was randomly browsing at the store when I saw a bunch of hair dye from korea, and just grabbed a box of blue dye and dyed my hair. the instructions were written in korean, and I can’t read korean, so I just followed the pictures. how hard can it be
mix the two bottles of acidic liquid up and toss it on my hair
I dyed it myself, so my arm was getting tired and the hair dye stuff stinks. my hair didn’t fall out*whew*
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I dyed my hair a bright red from my brunette, and it actually looked okay. Then it faded, so I stuck with brunette again. Then black…then brunette…then blonde…then white…then white and red..then white and pink. Wow.
magnolia / 1054 posts
I randomly went to a salon, went light brown and never went back
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I was never allowed to dye my hair an extreme colour because my school banned it. If you dyed your hair an “unnatural” shade you got suspended from school until you dyed it back, so I just got highlights until I was eighteen. The first time I fully dyed my hair I was twenty two and it looked fine – I got a lot of compliments on the colour.
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Lol well my first few dye jobs were alright. My mum was kind of strict about it & I went to a private school so I couldn’t go too crazy. But when I decided to be “goth”, I dyed my hair black & for some reason it didn’t completely take (probably because I had insanely long & thick hair & didn’t use enough) so I had black & brown hair. But afterward my mum had a brain aneurysm or something because she let me get this like fire engine red dye & I had black hair with a sheen of red & fire engine red streaks kind of mixed in. It actually looked pretty rad.
Now my hair hasn’t been dyed in years. Sometimes I think about it but it’s so healthy & I really like my natural color so I’m happy for now.
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No, it was not a disaster. I got subtle highlights done by a professional. The only other relatively bold thing I did was get chunky copper highlights. That’s about it. I’ve decided for now that my natural color flatters me most.
orchid / 106 posts
@Melanie L Stinson@facebook - I remember those! I also remember when you sprayed blonde on your hair? And then immediately went to work? This is my gorgeous sister, by the way!
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My first hair dye experience was a home job, I went from my natural colour of dark brown/almost black to bleach blonde… and it turned out great. I think a lot of people going blonde think ‘shit, it’s turned ginger!’ without realising that going blonde is a process of orangey brown, to yellow, to blonde, and then to white if wanted. It just takes common sense.
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My best-friend did my hair a dark purple color. Also took the liberty of doing my eyebrows at the same time. I was so pissed. But, it came out nice eventually. =)