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I respect her opinion and all, but she’s also using her sexuality to gain favor from others. 

I like how she reiterates that worth is not defined by sexuality. It’s good to hear someone speak out and assert that, especially a young woman.

@MoonFaeEyryan@xanga - I don’t think she’s really talking about using sexuality for favors, I think it’s more about using sexuality for acceptance or approval and defining your self-esteem around that. I also think people are unfairly chastised for using sex appeal to get ahead. It seems more appropriate to call out people who create an environment where sex can be a commodity. 

I don’t think that’s the problem with young people and their view on sex. We need to put more emphasis on the importance of protection and preventing unwanted pregnancy as well as not abusing your sexuality to get things you want or to gain attention (ahem miley’s panty photos). So many people think that sex is not a big deal and like it’s just some animal act to do for fun no matter your age, and it’ seriously messed up.

Yeah, sex is beautiful when you’re not whoring yourself out.  I think Miley has/had the right idea, but she did not go about explaining it in the right way.  When I first read this I was extremely put off.

As for sexuality getting you favors… she tried to sell sex… so can’t really take her seriously on that one.In other news, please wear a bra.  Thanks

i actually watched the whole interview and for the first time i was like hmm… girl seems to have a good head on her shoulders which is totally opposite of how the media portrays her.

even now as i read this blog i can just feel the judgement thats gonna be pouring in and for once im actually gonna side with her. she’s young, she’s gonna make mistakes and so will (or did) everyone at 19.

 watch the whole interview here if you’re interested. its actually really interesting and i dare you not to be surprised.

@PureLilly@xanga - Thank you for linking that, that site is awesome. In all seriousness, Miley talks pretty intelligently. There are a few things that you can tell she still has that 18 year old mentality about, but there are things she says that are beyond her years. I just become confused when she says things, but then does the opposite. 

Because we need more irresponsible teenagers getting pregnant and abandoning their kids. There is a reason why we don’t teach kids the magic and beauty of sex. 

@ceresa - 
Ah yes, because ignoring it and hoping it goes away has been working very well all this time.

The problem is, kids are still highly mislead and misinformed about the facts of sex. If you watch 16 and pregnant, this should be pretty evident since most of them wind up on the show because they were uneducated about something or felt it was required to have sex for the boy to like them. We shouldn’t ignore it, but I don’t agree with Miley that we need to gloat about how awesome it is. Sex can be great IF you are ready to handle the possible outcomes, otherwise you will end up with an std, a child, or emotionally confused, frustrated, and feeling used. 

while I agree she has some good points I don’t believe kids should be taught that you use sex to connect with someone – they don’t need to be having sex with everyone they want to get closer to and unfortunately that’s what happens for a lot of teens. they feel like in order to continue the relationship or get “closer” they just start having sex.

My mom likes to claim that she taught me about sex, but I know for a fact she didn’t and she is probably mistaken my for my brothers. The most out of a sex talk I got from people was in grade 5 during school. o.o Although, I pretty much figured everything out for myself. I have never had an STD, or got pregnant.

While I don’t really agree with Miley Cyrus’ image, I think her heart is in the right place on this one. Young girls especially aren’t really taught that sex is a good thing, and I think it hurts the psyches of many of them.

I actually agree with her words here. Kids are going to be exposed to everything, so instead of trying to hide the truth from them as long as possible, use your opportunities to tell them the truth before they get public opinion into their heads.

what the hell is that shirt though? i agree with her though and that actually kind of shocked me. i like that she added that sex is when you connect with someone too. people need to hear more of that part right there and that sex isn’t meant to be meaningless and with just anyone and that it CAN be beautiful.

I agree with her, for the first time! OMG!

Sideboob. That is all I can say. 

Looks like she’s clearly past her “I’m a virgin” claims.

Could we just, I don’t know, stop wasting our lives on every action a celebrity makes? Also, quit with the whole slut-shaming thing. Just. Stop.

@ceresa - It worked out for plenty of us. While ignoring sex altogether would be convenient, I think the point is that for kids, there are two prominent ways of thinking about sex; 1. Love, safe, beauty, real, etc.
2. Pressure, trade-off, evaluation of the self, recreation. It’s going to exist one way or another. There is a reason the sexual prime is teen years and fertility peaks at 19. Society is the part the changes it.

I think her heart is in the right place, but encouraging parents to teach their children that sex is “magical” and a “beautiful thing” would probably NOT be the best thing. Yes, sex can be magical and beautiful, but parents should not be telling their kids that. They need to tell them FACTS, not opinions. Not to mention that it’s only magical and beautiful with the right person. Telling teenagers that sex is awesome is simply glorifying something that shouldn’t be glorified to young, naïve people. Teenagers need to know that sex, while being pleasurable, can come with a LOT of negative consequences, both physical and emotional. It would be idiotic to pretend that it doesn’t.

Opinion: I honestly think sex is something that should be explained. However it should be explained in full detail. Telling them it isn’t good… when they go to school and everyone says it is great is counterproductive. They will call you out like the liar you are and everything you say will be in one ear and out the other.

My notes on this would be:

Don’t have sex because you need to or feel like you have something to prove.

Protection is number one being pregnant or getting someone pregnant at an early age is nothing to laugh at. Not to mention STD’s.. >.> gross.

Every action has consequences.

Be true to yourself, how you feel and never give yourself a reason to regret anything you do.

No need to rush when it is right… it is right.

You are young enjoy it. You have plenty of time to find that special someone so make sure you think it over when you’re clear minded and not under pressure. If it is still something you want to do… be ready to face and deal with all outcomes and consequences.

Disclaimer: If you have any questions or any concerns I am always here. Do not hesitate to ask even if it is at 3 am on a Tuesday.

Good for her. 

is nobody else bothered by her sideboob?

such an ugly tattoo, & why is she NEVER wearing a bra. so gross ….

I don’t think Miley is telling parents to encourage their children to have sex because it’s beautiful. I think she is telling parents that there is nothing wrong with educating them about sex because it’s a beautiful thing; it shouldn’t be a taboo subject in the household and should be discussed early on. Parents should tell their children that it’s beautiful and magical when done with someone who has true meaning to them. We can’t stop kids from having sex. All we can do is educate them about it and hope they make the right decisions — I’m pretty sure that’s where Miley was going with this, but of course people take it out of context.