I recently wrote about my failed breakup with Facebook, which stemmed from a desire to simplify my life and social network. While I may not have been sucessful in eliminating the site from my life, that day of deletion did inspire me to clean up my cyber existence a bit. Here are some tips and tricks for you to do the same!
1. Lay siege on your Facebook friends and take no prisoners. This was almost as difficult for me to do as deactivating my Facebook itself. I would try and slim down my friends list, only to worry that I was deleting potentially beneficial social connections. But I soon realized that nothing good was ever going to come from me rolling my eyes at asinine updates from middle school peers, so I turned off my concerns and deleted away. Plus, this way I have a better idea of who is able to peek into my life.
2. Cut something out. Be it web surfing time or a site you only kind of use, de-clutter your Internet routine by saying no to something all together. If you limit yourself to a certain amount of time online, you’ll prioritize sites and waste less time. Or just delete that Tumblr you visit once a week, or the Pinterest account you never use, but still receive annoying emails from.
3. Speaking of email…clean up your subscriptions! I was waking up every morning to at least 50 messages from sites like Ideeli, Groupon and MoveOn, all of which I never read. So I took the time to unsubscribe from a slew of sites (even the “intelligent” ones that I would always tell myself I was going to start reading), and I was pleasantly surprised at the effect it had! Now, instead of just deleting all unread messages in order to avoid sorting through them, I actually want to read what hits my inbox in the morning!
4. Utilize Google Docs. If you haven’t taken a look at Google Docs yet, stop reading and do it right now! (Then come back, of course.) It’s like having Microsoft Office everywhere, and you can access your documents at any computer with Internet connection. I use it to create to-do lists, jot down thoughts, organize recipes I find online and lots more. And it lets you sort things into folders! I love folders.
5. Organize your favorites toolbar. I went through and did this last week, and it’s a nice little treat to have my regular sites right in my toolbar (as opposed to the random blogs I put there three years ago and never visited again). I also discovered a slew of sites that I had forgotten existed, and excitedly checked up on pages that I loved, but had slipped my mind. Unearthing old virtual haunts is actually really fun, and can bring back some good memories!
Do you feel like your online life is overwhelming at times? How do you simplify it?
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I always lose track of time when I’m surfing the net =.=’ shame on me… but it’s like I can’t even help it.. darn temptations :S
guest
My Facebook account was.. ‘locked’? Because apparently someone signed onto it from an unrecognised computer. I never bothered to unlock it. I never was a Facebook fan, I go on once every.. 2 or 3 months? It’s just so busy to look at, does that sound weird? Haha. There’s just so much information on Facebook coming from my friends and classmates, it’s overwhelming at times.
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i should really un-friend some people. I mean chances are I won’t care if a friend of a friend’s friend’s friend’s sister’s friend’s cousin had a sandwich for lunch.
daffodil / 1615 posts
I like keeping really ridiculous people on Facebook so that their asinine drama provides me with entertainment. I also like to keep people that I sort of knew in high school so I can track unexpected pregnancies and be glad that I made good life choices.
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“potentially beneficial social connections” = people I might want to stalk/judge mercilessly in the future.
dahlia / 2382 posts
We’re losing our privacy online, isnt that enough?
I’m nowhere near as bad with the internet as I was when we first got it. When we got AOL when I was 12, I would be online from the time I got home from school until 2am! And this was back when AOL 3.0 was out & all you could do was talk, email & chat on DIAL UP!! I was so caught up in the things you can do from home & I had more friends online than I did in real life. As I got older & got more freedom to do things, I cut my internet umbilical cord but I have a healthier relationship with the internet now. I mean I’m big into facebook but I didnt fall out & die if I went on vacation for a week & couldnt go on. I would just catch up either when I got home or if a friend let me use their comp.
I think it depends on the person & their lifestyle. If what you do online hampers your offline life & responsibilities then yes you need to do somethings on this list before something gives in a bad way. But if you dont have much to do right now & you use your freetime to surf alot & social network, it’s not a big deal unless that straight up becomes your life.
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I was just thinking about how I want to delete a bunch of people on facebook. Why do I have people I dislike? Or people I met once? Or people I haven’t spoken to in years? I honestly barely even use facebook anymore partially because I don’t want all these people knowing my business but I feel bad deleting anyone!
rose / 937 posts
Facebook is my phone, I don’t actually post anything on my page at all. I only use it to check messages and check up on others’ lives. I already have everything organized for my bookmarks as well. I never add people as friends on anything, just let them add me so I don’t really need to worry about having a bunch of acquaintances on my list since usually only people who’ve known me for a good while will add me (and I only don’t accept if I don’t at all know the person). I don’t mind having acquaintances on there either – they added me, I’ll let them delete me if they want; seeing their stuff in my feed doesn’t affect me whatsoever. I only have 93 friends on there though. I also really don’t use email that much other than for subscriptions, so I don’t really care if there’s junk in there. Meh.
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I NEED to do 3 hahaha.
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I have always kept my friends list pretty clean and tight knit so to speak.
I keep my email clean of spam by never opting in for emails.
It’s just reflex.
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The only reason I keep my facebook is to stay in touch with friends who live far away and are kind of lazy to write e-mails. Since facebook appeared it seems that people just don’t know how to write an e-mail or make a phone call. I try to keep in touch with friends as much as possible out of the facebook thing because but sometimes I get the impression some people find it uncomfortable.. anyway, besides that, I don’t use my facebook whatsoever ha!
guest
hahaha, just finished cleaning up my facebook friend’s list. Hoping to cut it down to below a 100
guest
1,2,4 &5 are stuff I am already doing! I never understand why people want to have 1000 friends on their FB which they will never speak to. For me its better to have small amount of important friends so that you can focus on them =)