Of course we don’t know Rihanna personally, but we here at Lovelyish do think she’s pretty cool. That is, with the exception of that pesky thing that keeps popping up in association with her, that loud-mouthed Chris Brown. Lately his antics have lit up the Twittersphere (did I make that word up?), and while Rihanna can’t seem to find her footing in the debate, most recently Brown’s been catching heat from country singer Miranda Lambert.
One on hand, Rihanna herself has been tweeting sort of cryptically in ways that lead us to believe she’s on the road to forgiving Chris Brown. And, you know, I’m all about forgiveness and not letting one person’s actions ruin your life, but I have a feeling, combined with their recent professional entanglings, that this isn’t just an effort to move on by RiRi. I worry that a girl so pretty and seemingly confident might have found her Kryptonite in the form of this toxic character.
And if anyone shares my sentiments it’s American country singer Miranda Lambert, who by the looks of it is pretty sick of Chris Brown’s disrespectful behavior, too. Her tweets have made no bones about her condemnation of his character, and she’s snarked back a few times at people trying to look past Brown’s misdeeds.
This is a new level of offensive to me, much higher than the “There’s no such thing as bad press” angle. I mean, I hate to compare him to Kanye, but there’s a difference between stealing the spotlight and being outspoken for attention (which I don’t necessarily hold in high regard), and remaining blatantly unapologetic in regards to personal trespasses like hurting a woman (or hurting anyone!). Brown shows no non-PR remorse, and he’s getting very little punishment from the public, his fans making light of being beaten.
The media’s focus on this issue should be one of empowerment. While holding a fan’s sign that reads “Take Notes Chris Brown” Miranda says she’s “been in a world of hurt from Chris Brown fans lately…but where [she] come[s] from beating up on a woman is never okay.” I say kudos to her. I’m all about using fame for good.
What’s your take on the continuing saga? Is it their business, or does his public image give license to this aggressive criticism?
[via Buzzfeed]




daisy / 617 posts
I love Miranda Lambert, she’s awesome. Also, Gunpowder and Lead is probably my favorite angry woman song. I rock out to it hardcore when I’m pissed, ha.
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I was so surprised to find out he was at the Grammy’s! I feel disgusted any time a song of his comes on the radio. Why do people still support him? He beat the shit out of his girlfriend! I thought for sure his career would be over after that… what’s even more shocking is these girls’ reactions, tweeting stuff like “I’d let Chris Brown beat me up anytime
”: http://www.buzzfeed.com/mjs538/horrible-reactions-to-chris-brown-at-the-grammys
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I just read last night he actually did – it wasn’t that he just hit her he literally beat the crap out of her. He does not deserve to still be “famous”
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I’m glad at least one person in celeb land is talking about it.
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i read she hit him first. obviously he hit her way harder, but we should all be anti-domestic violence whether it be mm,mf,fm,ff.
dahlia / 2382 posts
@xTHATnena@xanga - Very true. The way I was brought up, you never hit anyone smaller than you, boy, girl, whatever. I’m NOT saying Rihanna was right to hit him (if that did happen. there’s so many different versions of the story out) but a slap is WAY less than a full on beat down. He has the opportunity to walk away or just let her leave the car but he instead chose to beat her.
I saw what her face looked like after the fact. From what I’ve seen, Chris is like solid muscle, he really put a pounding on her. Then his bitch ass whines when people bring it up. You’re a public figure that beat his girlfriend, dumbshit. That’s not going to go away. Instead of taking domestic violence classes only, they should slap him with anger management & possible jail time for acting in a threatening manner (like lashing out & breaking things) because it’s obvious this BOY has temper problems.
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He is such a fucking child.
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@xTHATnena@xanga - yea its irrelevant who hit who first
orchid / 160 posts
I can’t understand anything Miranda Lambert wrote. I don’t speak American.
tulip / 11 posts
Was searching twitter so I can follow Miranda and the top tweet pops up- 6 hours ago Chris Brown wrote: Go buy @miranda_lambert album! So motivational and “PERFECT”!
If he has matured so much in the past couple of years he wouldn’t be taking twitter to be so sarcastic and mock someone else speaking up against domestic violence
sunflower / 337 posts
Needs to be put back in his place?…not at the Grammys? I’m sorry, but the man is entitled to a comeback and has every right to keep going with his career. Whether or not you like his music doesn’t matter. Everyone deserves a second chance. He may act petulant but as long as he doesn’t beat anyone ever again, people need to leave him alone.
I don’t know which is worse, what Chris Brown did to Rihanna or what people want to see done to him. I think he should have had a harsher sentence than community service, but I do NOT think that he deserves to get his ass beat or get raped in prison, as many people have “suggested.” This is why I’m glad that society doesn’t decide what happens to people when they commit a crime. Every other law breaker would be dead for sure.
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I watched my father beat my mother for years before she gathered up the courage to leave him. I know the type; generally narcissistic with an insatiable need to dominate and control.
She could have been killed that night; I’m amazed she didn’t end up with brain damage.
His ego needs a SERIOUS check…and I am pretty sure if we let him forget this happened, he’d forget it too. He’s already in denial about it…the only reason he acted remorseful is because of the public outrage.
This happens EVERYDAY to women who can’t leave or don’t have someone to rally for them. She is really lucky to have that…
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Definitely not right for beating a woman (oh man we’re so sexist, we don’t see all this hype when a woman beats a man right?).
But I do like his recent songs.
I don’t like him, but I like his songs.
His fans are just immature and crazy in the head. Doubt they’d say the same thing after they do get beat for real.
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He’s an idiot and he’s violent. To say he’s making a come back is just bull. He didn’t have a few crap songs and fall off the scene for a while. He BEAT A WOMAN! That’s not coming back, that’s people ignoring the fact that he’s violent and basically telling women to go screw themselves because making money is more important than womens rights. Forgivness is one thing but that doesnt mean we have to put him back up on the pedestal again and ignore what has been done. People can forgive him by not harassing him over e-mail or stop sending him death threat letters etc. We don’t need to send him to the grammy’s and put him on a bunch of talk shows and make him a bigger celebrity. That’s ignorance not forgiveness. Ri needs to watch Enough and take some notes. Ok, maybe that’s a bit much, but she definitely shouldn’t be working with him anymore or encouraging his behavior by tweeting some of the things she has been lately. Every time he goes to these events and people treat him like a king he comes back and tweets or makes comments in interviews basically throwing the middle finger out to everyone. He’s not sorry at all and he’s just making everyone who follows him look like an idiot too. Your a fan and support him and he basically spits in your face by saying your rights dont matter and his actions are screaming. “I beat a girl and got away with it. I’m still famous so f*ck all of ya’ll” He’s disgusting.
magnolia / 1066 posts
I’m glad Miranda Lambert is standing up for Rihanna, but my God, it isn’t her business and it isn’t her life. Maybe ONE dissatisfied tweet saying that wife beaters shouldn’t get awarded, but she’s kind of acting like a high schooler, sticking herself in the middle of business that has nothing to do with her.
lily / 5148 posts
@x__RainOnHerParade@xanga - I really concur with that.
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Hell maybe if Chris Brown really hade some balls, he would talk shit about Miranda Lambert right to Blake Shelton’s face. Now that is a fight I would love to see. Chris Brown getting his ass handed to him in a no holds barred match at wrestlemania 29. Book it McMahon, lol.
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Learn from Whitney. Get involved with a piece of shit….and it will be more than you can handle.
Be SMART!!! Leave the bad boys alone!!
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People need to get over it already. Stop being stuck in 2009!
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As far as Rhianna, there is a difference between forgiving and moving on. I don’t think she should ever forgive him, but try to move on amidst his publicity.
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As far as Chris, I feel like the only thing I can do is not support him by watching or buying his music. Even if I like it, I don’t want to pay him in any way.
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@ColorMehGreen@xanga - I agree with you. though i also feel that if she want’s to get beat up again more power to her. people do change. I am a big fan of Rhianna’s I really am but hey, let people make their mistakes. Maybe there is something we don’t see. Ya know? Or, maybe there isn’t. we aren’t there… we have no clue what’s going on.
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@Shadowshif@xanga - I agree. I feel like we don’t really know what’s goingon. For all we know it could ave been planned.
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@ColorMehGreen@xanga - Could have been