While some people may be super excited for February 14th, to me it’s just another Tuesday. With it signifying no real purpose to me, I tend to fall into the category of people who think it’s just a Hallmark holiday. It’s a chance for the economy to boom due to all the selling of the cards, the flowers, the candy, and the hearts that are sold in stores well, everywhere. But are these things really meaningful? Is a heart full of chocolates really a gesture that says: I love you or I’m glad you’re in my life. Or better yet, should there even be a grand gesture?
Now, I’ve gotten my fair share of Valentine’s day gifts even though I don’t believe in the holiday. I got the candy hearts when I was younger, a few flowers, and even some genuinely thoughtful gifts, but it still makes me wonder what’s the point? Sure, it’s always nice to get presents, and to have that little reminder that someone is thinking about you, but should you have to be reminded? Now maybe I’m cynical (and trust me you won’t be the first to tell me so) but it all just seems a little too forced to me. If you love someone you should tell them and prove it to them everyday because you want to and you feel it, not because the calendar is telling you too.
But, with all that said, I know some people do take this day pretty seriously, and put a lot of thought into making sure that someone gets this truly awesome and amazing day. Maybe it’s something like a fancy night out, or something so simple yet genuine that it takes your breath away. Whatever it is, I know some of you out there have had some pretty amazing things done for you, or even done some amazing things for the ones you love. So while I may not believe in the holiday, I know a lot of people do. So, I’m leaving it up to you guys to start spreading the love and maybe, just maybe, make me a believer.
So let’s hear it! What was the best Valentine’s Day gift you ever got? Any great stories?
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My favorite gift is the fairy necklace my date bought me when he picked me up for a Valentine’s dance that I was the princess of! And then I almost got kicked out for dancing like a slut.
or wait… maybe that was homecoming. Stupid school!
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My first boyfriend came to my house on Valentine’s Day with a single rose, a handwritten note with watercolor illustrations, and then we went for a long bike ride and made out under a slide at a park.
That still comes second to a glass octopus my dad gave me one year. It was just sitting on my bed when I came home.
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I to believe it shouldn’t take valentines day to tell someone how much you love and care.
I tell my husband everyday before he goes to work and every night before he goes to bed.
cherry blossom / 47 posts
Well, my mom just sent me a new set of sheets, I thought that was a pretty practical Valentine’s Day gift.
But seriously, the best Valentine’s Day gift I have received has got to be sunflowers (my favorite) and a kiss! I am very easy to please!
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It’s funny. I’m the one who gives the Valentine’s Day gifts (to SO’s and friends)…but have never received one. It didn’t bother me, until a friend said, “If they cared they would have done something.” Maybe that’s true. But, I like to receive a candid, sappy note or little gift on a day with no special occasion. That means it came from the heart and not out of obligation.
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Never really gotten any Vday gifts before. Though for most of my life my mom would get me some reese’s, I guess that counts.
daffodil / 1615 posts
My boyfriend and I don’t do gifts on Valentine’s Day. Actually, we don’t really do anything but sit at home in our sweatpants and enjoy each others’ company. Valentine’s Day is overrated.
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When I was younger I tended to not be in a relationship during VDay, and even if I did we didn’t really do much since it was high school and all.
I still remember though that back then my dad would try every year to send me one of those little bears holding a heart that said something cute, and a card. I think that’s the most special thing I could get anyway. Rather than from a boyfriend.
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For our first Valentine’s Day together I got a hand made bouquet of hand made chocolate strawberries, and just last year I got chocolate dipped strawberries…done in tuxedo style! I have a slight obession with chocolate dipped strawberries so it’s nice that he does this
orchid / 107 posts
When I was still in high school and my husband was in college (before we were married, obviously) he knew I was sad that we were apart on Valentine’s Day, so he sent me a 2-lb chocolate bar with the message “I love you 2-lbs worth” decorating the face of it in pink icing.
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One boyfriend soldered a heart with “I love you” written inside it. All metal wires. Kind of cheesy, but I love how he made it himself
I still have it even though we broke up years ago.
rose / 786 posts
For my first Valentine’s Day with my boyfriend, which was actually our first date, he had asked my sister what my favorite flower was. So when he showed up he had a Daisy with some baby’s breath for me. It was beautiful! And it was the first gift I had ever gotten from. It was also meaningful because he had taken the time to find something I would like.
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one time i busted my head open on valentines day and had to get 5 staples put in. there was a lot of blood. you might even say i poured my heart out…. literally.
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When I was younger, my grandma gave me a beta fish
as I got older, I just didn’t like the holiday enough to bother with dates giving me gifts.
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I can’t remember any of my valentines gifts….so therefore they were probably crappy.