I recently picked up a seasonal job at Macy’s to earn a few extra bucks for gifts. While the gig is great, hearing non-stop Christmas music for nine hours a day is not. I learned to mostly ignore the audio assault, but one particular song still caught my attention: “Baby, It’s Cold Outside.” And as I listened to it at least four times a day, I began to notice something a bit odd. The lyrics sort of conjure a sense of, well, immense creepiness. Perhaps I’m being overly-sensitive, but this cheery holiday tune now gives me the heebie-jeebies every time I hear it. Let’s take a look at the more disturbing lines after the cut.
1. “Say, what’s in this drink?” Clearly someone realized the trouble with this line, because later versions change it to “what’s in this sleigh?” — which just sounds like silly innuendo. But in the original, a woman spends the first verse telling a man she needs to leave his house. He responds by ignoring her protests and pouring another drink. Then comes this line, and things go from uncomfortable to insanely strange.
2. “I ought to say no, no, no, sir.” “Mind if I move a little closer…” I guess she isn’t technically saying “no” here, but her discomfort leading up to it doesn’t do the guy any favors. Also, his line here isn’t phrased as a question. Creeptastic!
3. “At least I’m gonna say that I tried.” “What’s the sense in hurting my pride?” Oh good, the guy is guilting her into staying so that his pride isn’t wounded. If my boyfriend relentlessly nagged me to stay over because it would be good for his pride, I would snort-laugh so hard. And then leave.
4. “I really can’t stay.” “Baby,K don’t hold out.” OK, I thought I would have about three lines for this post. But they just keep coming. Also, this couple has to be in high school. I’ve never seen such a lack of “romantic” subtlety from anyone over 18 (aside from a few visits to frat bars in college). “Baby don’t hold out”? Maybe if you give her a promise ring first she won’t?
5. “The answer is no.” Now she actually does say no! And yet Mister Let Me Pour You A Drink just keeps going, complete with some heavy guilting and a dash of “how can you do this to me?” Ladies, for future reference, this is not romantic. Men, for future reference, this usually won’t get a girl’s shirt off.
“Baby It’s Cold Outside” was written in 1944, which I’m sure was a simpler time in which paranoid weirdos like me didn’t see the bizarre implications of its lyrics. But how is this still a holiday hit? I know Christmas albums are barfed out like clockwork this time of year, but is it really so mechanical that people don’t stop and reconsider including this tune? I know people are going to say I’m taking this too seriously. Readers, I don’t think the song is going to cause any damage, but hey, why not have one less Christmas jingle on the radio? Read the full lyrics here.
Do you think the song is strange? Do you love it or hate it?
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Hahaha my roommate and I call this song the “rape” song. We were going to do a duet with it, but then decided against it.
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Yep, this one weirds me out.
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i’ve had this song stuck in my head all day! the lyrics are quite dodgy, but i guess the june cleaver in me can sense the implied romance…
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Bah… It’s about a man who wants the woman to stay, and the woman wants to stay but she is afraid of how things will appear to others, hence the,
“At least I’m gonna say that I tried.”
“What’s the sense in hurting my pride?”
Reading “creepy” in to the song is just silly. Playful bantar. That is all. When the song was written back in 1944, it was a song between a husband and wife that they sang at the end of a show to let people know that it’s time to leave and the show is over. It actually had nothing to do with Christmas. Um… at all. People just started playing it around Christmas a lot so it turned into a “Christmas Classic.”
Granted, the sheet music depicts “wolf” and “mouse” as the two parts, but the full story is more fun than creepy.
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There are a plethora of very creepy rape-tastic songs in the world….no surprise there’s a Christmas version.
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Ive always referred to this one as the ultimate date rape song.
daffodil / 1615 posts
The She&Him version has the duet switched up, with M. Ward singing the traditionally female part and Zooey Deschanel singing the male part. Doesn’t seem as creepy that way, but it is a pretty…interesting holiday song regardless.
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I agree with SasGal but I have heard so many people call it creepy, that I think of it as the roofie song now.
rose / 802 posts
I like the tune, but it’s totally rapey. Makes me uncomfortable.
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I never looked into the lyrics that seriously; makes me want to re-listen to the song now.
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If you actually listen to the song and the inflections the vocalists use the girl really DOESN’T want to leave! She’s at her boyfriend’s and doesn’t want to leave, but she lives at home and knows she will get the third degree or in big trouble if she tries to sneak in the house early the next day. She “ought to say no” but will say she tried when she has to explain where she was all night and why she is a bit tipsy. The guy isn’t trying to RAPE her, he just wants her to stay the night. You also should remember how long ago this song was written…
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If you listen to the song, the girl clearly isnt like OH MY GOD GET ME OUT OF HERE! She has a inflection in her voice that clearly indicates she doesnt mean what she’s saying, not quite sarcasm, but close.
And…this is one of my favorite christmas songs^.^ Especially the glee version
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This is my favorite Christmas song. I don’t care if it’s creepy.
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In that day, “What’s in this drink?” referred to alcohol. So, it’s not like he’s trying to drug her.
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@ChristinesRants@xanga - That’s exactly how I feel. She’s clearly saying no, but then she’s like, “well maybe.”
rose / 786 posts
Yea. This song is freaky.
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This post cracked me up! HAHA, I used to be OBSESSED with the song when I was a high schooler (when the Jessica Simpson/Nick Lachey version was out.) Not so much anymore…
rose / 791 posts
It wasn’t originally a Christmas song anyway. And people need to stop reading so much into things. Can’t we just enjoy music for what it is without trying to find hidden meanings in it all the time?
orchid / 130 posts
The other morning my younger brother really listened to this song and he was like, ” WTF is going on here?! Is he about to rape her? o_0
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@blessedheartbeat@xanga - haha I just called this the rape song a few days ago and my mom got upset because she liked the song… before I pointed that out.
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Ah, “The Date Rape Carol”.
lily / 5148 posts
I actually saw a video on youtube of someone doing a countdown of the most sexist/creepy christmas songs..and this song was number one. I do admit it’s kind of weird and maybe a bit creeepy..christmas or not.
rose / 980 posts
lol There are probably a million different versions of the lyrics. I think her entire family is home waiting for her… she asks for half a drink more… says her parents will worry, the neighbors will wonder… and her maiden aunt’s mind is vicious! Clearly, it was written in the times that it was written. I’m not even sure date rape drugs existed back then. It’s one of the songs that you need realize the times of its writing. She’s worried about her reputation and he’s teasing she’ll die of the elements… it does say a lot!