A few weeks ago, a girl named Hillary Adams uploaded an almost 8-minute video to YouTube (warning: if you choose to watch the video on Youtube, it is very upsetting and could be a potential trigger) that she had recorded in 2004, when she was 16. She had secretly hidden a camera in her bedroom and happened to record a video of her father and her mother, beating her with a belt for doing what most 16-year-olds do: downloading music and video games. Instead of doing the sane thing, such as taking away her computer, telling her the seriousness of piracy and perhaps grounding her for a week or two, her father beat her with a belt and berated her (and her mother).
The worst parts? Hillary has ataxic cerebral palsy, which is a less common form of cerebral palsy that affects her motor functions (such as using scissors or pens and pencils). Even worse, Hillary’s father, Judge William Adams, is a family court judge, which means he often deals with and judges on abusive family situations.
After Hillary uploaded the video, it was uploaded to Reddit.com and by various news sites, all of which called for Judge Adams to be suspended. He went on paid leave and released a statement, claiming that Hillary only released the video to spite him for threatening to cut off financial support (claiming that she dropped out of college and only worked part-time in a video game store).
Judge Adams was just recently suspended, although the Texas court system declined to say why they had done so. It is easy to infer from the media coverage surrounding Judge Adams (as well as his wife’s decision to leave him and try to gain sole custody of their younger daughter) that he was suspended for this video and suggested continued abuse. Hillary has made clear that she loves her father, she just wants him to receive the help he needs to control his anger.
What do you think of this situation? Do you think Hillary did the right thing by exposing her father’s abuse? Do you think Judge Adams deserved to be suspended?
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GOOD. I watched the video and he deserves to be suspended. I’m glad she was able to catch actual evidence of that shit going on so that he could at least be punished in some way for it. Nobody is perfect and judges don’t have to be perfect human beings, but he straight-up beat the crap out of his daughter and that’s inexcusable in my opinion.
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I think he deserved more than a being suspended. Jailed and stripped from his rights of being a judge. -___-
daisy / 647 posts
Suspended isn’t good enough. It’s just like when cops get suspended for a week with no pay. He got off way too easy.
orchid / 222 posts
lol “fuck you dad, imma drop outta college and post the video to get rich” as if. He deserved more.
ranunculus / 3457 posts
It’s these types of people that make me think “an eye for an eye” isn’t such a bad idea after all.
hydrangea / 77 posts
Although it wasn’t right for her dad to beat her and I’m glad he’s being suspended for it, I feel like she uploaded it to Youtube just for attention because there are kids all over the world that are abused like this (and even worse), and she could’ve kept it private and just showed it to the police/local authorities instead. She should’ve revealed this video earlier, instead of waiting until she was 23 and using it to prevent her dad from reducing her financial support and taking away the Mercedes he gave her.
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i would have strangled him with the belt in his sleep.
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Suspended? No, there should have been a worse crime. But I do agree with @irishbitterman about the comment that other kids deal with abuse just like this, or worse. I know I did.
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@irisbitterman - Yeah, in spite of the fact that she waited for a while to release it, I’d be pretty angry if my father did that to me. I would want everyone to see it, to shame him. That guy has a serious problem and maybe showing it to the world is the only way to get it through some peoples’ thick skulls that it’s horribly wrong to do such things to your own children. Are there kids who get worse beatings? Yeah, but this isn’t a contest, there’s always somebody worse off. She was quiet about it for years, and I bet that wasn’t easy.
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WHAT THE FUCK?!?!!?!?!?!?!D FKJDSFJFSEDFJDSFKJDSFKJDSKDSF;JSAF
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i’m with some discipline to kids, taking away there TV or xbox just doesnt work. if she was a boy, i’d be come on be a man kid and stop crying about it, but she’s a girl and girls shouldn’t be treated that way. you cant imagine the things my dad did for me, i’m sure some of those things could’ve put my dad behind bars for a long time. maybe i didnt like what he did to me at that time. all i know now is , if it wasnt for my father i wouldn’t be the successful man i am today. my dad might be a very hard person to live with sometimes, but i still love him cause he’s my dad.
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I’m crying. This is so sad. It reminds me of what it was like for me growing up. My dad did all this stuff to me. Never with a belt but with his fists. My heart breaks for that girl. It’s so heartbreaking having to see people have to go through that. Ever. So sad
hydrangea / 77 posts
@blackspiders@xanga - Maybe, but I’m getting that “I want my 15 minutes of attention/fame” vibe from her.
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@irisbitterman - Living in this “family oriented” state. I almost understand why she uploaded it publicly. If she had gone privately to the police they would of slapped him on the wrist and explained to him that if he was going to punish his kids to be wiser about it instead of the way he chose. Suspension would never of happened. So in that respect, I understand fully of why the public viewing. Waiting so long to upload it….eh…If I had ever gotten proof of my abuse I would of threatened to blast it. I would not of made it to the cops because I would of been afraid of my other siblings taking a different punishment or worse, more secretive. I was not so lucky as to have my abuse ever witnessed or caught on tape. You’re right about waiting until her support was taken away (if that’s true), but seeing as how there’s another child in the picture that’s benefiting from the light being shown, it’s a lesser evil.
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This is another classic example of America’s wonderful justice system. He got away with it because he was a judge, if he’d been any average Joe he would have gotten into a lot more trouble. Another reason he got away with it was because he was beating a child, if she’d posted a video of him doing pot or something he would have been put behind bars for years.
You see, here in America we care more about social status than our children.
All over the internet, too. I love how that judge was saying “See how many problems this causes”, no, see how many problems YOU have made it cause? This just is not right. It was more than just the physical abuse too. I mean, saying she didn’t deserve to LIVE there because she played video games? Christ. What planet have they been living on? He was talking to her like a dog.
I like that she used the internet to get this seen by everyone, since that was what it was over. Daddy forgot to mention no posting videos, I guess . . .
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Why was this on Lovelyish?
orchid / 198 posts
This story is only being half told. The Soundbites don’t tell you how she was stealing music from the internet, and had disobeyed her parents’ rules on such and that this wasn’t the first time she’d done such or been caught in the act. While I will agree that the Dad shouldn’t have lashed out in anger, his anger was merited. Cerebral palsey or not, she knew what she was doing, and in the initial seconds and minutes of the video, she even tries to justify herself and her downloading of illegally obtained music…and that her mother asks her why she keeps doing it.
This is just another example of a girl behaving badly, getting away with it, and calling her Dad a monster, accusing him of abuse. No, he shouldn’t have lashed out in anger, but this daughter should have known better than to repeatedly disobey him. Yet another example of someone disobeying parents and getting away with it….
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@irisbitterman – I agree with you. I think the judge was extreme and shouldn’t have beaten her, but I think she was making it seem a lot worse than it was. She knew she was on video and was going to post it and she wanted to screw her dad over.
@JandJinJapan@xanga – I completely agree. If she obeyed her parents – since she was living in their house, under their rules – this wouldn’t have happened. I think both parties are at fault, since there could have been less violent punishments as well.
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