Ah, matters of the heart. Just when we think things are going to get easier, some complications come about and we’re back to square one, trying to figure out where we went wrong. I truly believe that matters of the heart would seems way less complicated if we just let things happen naturally. Too bad I have a brain to go with this heart of mine, and I’m way too practical of a person to leave my love affairs up to chance. If relationships came with warning signs and manuals, the world would be spared of all its heartache. Unfortunately, it doesn’t. So we’re left to fend for ourselves in the battles of love.
Long ago, someone somewhere told a girl that playing hard to get is one of the best ways to boost our appeal, and we’ve been doing it ever since. Well I’m here to tell you all, there is a such thing as playing too hard to get. Playing too hard to get + a guy who likes a chase but doesn’t like to feel like he’s wasting his time on a girl who doesn’t seem interested = you getting left, alone.
Here are some signs that you’re playing too hard to get. Take heed, and in matters of the heart, godspeed.
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I hate it when girls play this “hard-to-get” game (whether consciously or subconsciously). Too emotionally draining for me during the chase period when the girl plays it like that.
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I did this a little during my last relationship, but like just for flirting sake before my ex and I got together ’cause he clearly knew I liked him too. It’s just that he liked me more than I liked him from the beginning. I agree that overdoing it would make you seem uninterested.
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I hate when guys think im playing hard to get. No, I genuinely don’t like you. If I dont answer your calls/texts/facebook posts, leave me alone.
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Well.. I don’t like playing easy either. AHAHA. I played hard to get and found my boyfriend now.
Thanks to all that “playing hard to get,” I found that he was the guy for meeeee! Because everyone else gave up.
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@zzzzzulavalle@xanga - AHAHAHHA! DITTO! I hate it when they just bother you continuously.. and you’ve ignored them 53232431 times!
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@KzNetty@xanga - Hahaha seriously though, i guess its true that guys really are clueless