Editor’s note: We’re currently looking for awesome interns! Find out how to apply here.
I’ve noticed that, whenever a post mentions being an intern for Lovelyish, it gets a decent amount of comments asking about said internship. At the same time, I don’t think anyone’s ever explained how to apply and what we actually do here. So, for my last post as a Lovelyish intern (*sniffle*), I’ve decided to pass along some wisdom on how you can take over the spot I’m vacating. And, of course, why you’d want to! Because you totally should; who wouldn’t want to be a part of the great-looking group in that picture?
I was a member of Xanga for a super long time (like, since middle school), so Lovelyish has always been a part of my vocabulary. I’d seen posts titled “Meet the Intern!” (which, uh, I can’t find now, so don’t quote me on this one), and when it came time to find something to do this summer, I figured I’d give it a shot. But I had no idea where to begin; there are no “interns wanted” signs on the home page! I ended up Googling “intern for Xanga,” and it brought me to Ed2010.com. I later realized that all the same info is under the “About” tab here on Lovelyish.
If you’re interested in writing, I highly recommend that you apply, even if you aren’t particularly interested in beauty, fashion, and/or celebrities. Here’s why!
1. You don’t have to write about beauty, fashion, and/or celebrities. Unless, of course, you want to. I wouldn’t call myself particularly stylish, and I rarely wear makeup, yet here I am. I’ve written about everything from books to TV shows to traveling to my hair, got to interview Vanessa Carlton, and spent a solid week writing about nothing but Harry Potter. Was that the most awesome week ever? Um, YES.
2. Is Lovelyish not what you want to see? Change it! Readers complain that Lovelyish is too shallow, or girly, or whatever the word du jour is. If you’re an intern, you are required to write a minimum of eight posts per week. You can do whatever you want with your posts. If you want Lovelyish to tackle bigger issues, you can be the one to do it.
3. It builds your portfolio. Like I said, at least eight posts a week. Think about how much writing that is after the three months is up.
4. You hone your skills. I definitely feel like I’ve matured as a writer during my time here. I’ve found a distinct voice for myself and have learned how to write for an audience. Not only that, but interns edit reader submitted posts as well. This catered to my inner grammar nazi, and taught me how to spot relevant posts that will get conversations going.
5. Flexibility! Interns have to work a minimum of 15 hours a week for three months. But beyond that, how you schedule yourself is entirely up to you. I worked a little chunk each day to make being creative easier on myself, but if you want to work two 7 1/2 hour days, there’s nothing stopping you. If you want to work at two in the morning, by all means, go ahead. The Xanga office is in NYC, so if you’re local, you can work out of the office or from your bed at home. Seriously, it’s a sweet deal.
6. Everyone here is awesome. And this isn’t me sucking up! I went into the office maybe four or five times this summer, and everyone I met was absolutely awesome. You couldn’t ask for a more quality group of people to work with. Of course, interns come and go, so this could feasibly change, but let’s assume it won’t. After all, Lovelies are lovely!
7. Each intern that leaves is bummed about it. I think that’s a pretty good indication of how good an internship is, yes? A good chunk of us summer interns have left this week, and it’s been downright depressing.
Oh, and we get free stuff! I somehow missed out on all of it, so I couldn’t really include it in the list, but it does happen! I think I missed the Essie giveaway by like a day, which was rather unfortunate.
The one down side? The internship is unpaid. But you can do it for school credit, and @Eugenia’s been known to treat the team to lunch every now and then.
Well, that’s it for me (for now). I had an amazing time writing for you guys this summer, and I really hope to see some of you as interns in the future!
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sounds really nice
cherry blossom / 47 posts
Great post Darci! Interning for Lovelyish really is a fun experience.
sunflower / 332 posts
Ah, man! I really wish that I could work for Lovelyish
Unfortunately, I have a paying job that takes up a lot of my time and I’m a science major (meaning little to no free time). Damn.
guest
I actually would love to intern, that way I would be forced to write in complete sentences and use proper grammar
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That sounds like a ton of fun! It would be so cool to intern with Xanga!!!
But, I’m fresh out of college and I need to start looking for a paid big-girl job, lol.
orchid / 216 posts
oh nvm I just read the requirements, and I am sooo gonna apply anyways! xD
orchid / 216 posts
I want to intern at Lovelyish! haha do you have to live in NY for it though?
daffodil / 1579 posts
I’ve always thought about applying but I don’t know if I would have time to do 8 posts a week :[
orchid / 193 posts
I definitely would intern if I lived in NY, but I’m down in GA so… I guess I’ll just keep submitting posts. Either way, I’m still writing for Lovelyish, and I love it here.
cherry blossom / 47 posts
@lohanzodiac06@xanga - Good luck!
guest
Darci! Noooo! You’re one of my favorites. Don’t leave -tear-
I’d love to intern if I weren’t going to be so busy with school. I’m right here in PA, so the distance isn’t a big deal but it’s the time factor… I haven’t REALLY written a decent piece in too long, so it’d be nice to sit down and get the creative juices flowing.
But anyway, this is a good post.
orchid / 216 posts
wait, wait is it okay if I go to school in Ohio? :\
and Darci, you can’t leave
you were one of my favorite writers on here! I really loved reading your Harry Potter posts…seriously, those brought lots of laughter and entertainment into my life. Especially the Harry Potter memes and your particular story about camping out to see the premiere of the last HP movie. don’t leave
sunflower / 453 posts
“I definitely feel like I’ve matured as a writer during my time here… This catered to my inner grammar nazi“
Guess it didn’t cater to people who would be offended by comparing words to crimes against humanity in the holocaust!
Sorry, I had to say it. Pet peeve: when people act like the holocaust isn’t a big deal anymore and we don’t have to be wary of joking about “putting people in ovens” or “omg I was so harsh I was like a nazi on that kid” etc just because we haven’t lived through it/during it. Glad you had a good internship though
rose / 960 posts
maybe during my sophomore year, when i’m done acclimating to college and possibly(possibly!) transfer to NYU :O
daffodil / 1525 posts
@ScarletMoth@xanga - are you serious.
relevant to post: sad to see you leave, cool stuff, makes lovelyish sound like a really great place to work for
sunflower / 453 posts
@annamariuhh@xanga - I know, I’m being a jerk. But how can someone write a sentence about being a mature writer and about paying a lot of attention to words and grammar and THEN self-aggrandizingly call themselves a Nazi?! It’s such an easy word to avoid, and such a problematic one to include.
sunflower / 382 posts
What if you’re a guy? LOL
daisy / 568 posts
I want to intern for Lovelyish!! I don’t write on here much but it’s because every time I see something interesting I want to write about, Loveylish is already on it haha. I’ll definitely think about it though. Thanks Darci. So sad you’re leaving
Have fun at school though!
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@ScarletMoth@xanga - uh, lots of people use the term “grammar nazi”. i think darci used this term b/c it has been used before.. i doubt she was thinking about the holocaust
daisy / 639 posts
I’ll miss you!
I’ve actually wanted to intern, but I won’t be living in NYC for another year, at the least… and I really wanna live there as I do it. But if you guys are still doing the fashion photo posts (I can’t remember for the life of me what they’re called) by then, I’ll definitely do it
It’ll be a good thing to put on my resume!
guest
I would be so so keen, unfortunately I live in New Zealand.
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@jolisa_fashion - I am in Los Angeles and a Lovelyish intern. YAY telecommuting! You should just go for it =) The meetings/interviews are done via skype.
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If I lived in New York I totally would
daffodil / 1569 posts
@iKevinL@xanga - We will consider male applicants who are supremely qualified and/or really, really good looking
rose / 960 posts
@xxx_MYLiFE@xanga - i think that’s what @ScarletMoth@xanga was getting at. it’s not really cool to use a history-packed word into such a blase saying. it means we’ve forgotten about the severity of the word itself, which is what most grammarists insist we not do.
take ‘terrorist’ or ‘insurgent’ for example, or ‘Al Qaeda’. do you think you’re ever going to refer to yourself as a grammar insurgent? or to your group of friends as ‘Al Qaedites’ (that one was pretty lame. humor me; i just woke up >.<”)
rose / 791 posts
@Jessica - Can I apply if I’m in England?
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I would love to intern!!
I’ll have to check it out!
and gahh it makes me sad that all the interns are leaving.
sunflower / 453 posts
@xxx_MYLiFE@xanga - it doesn’t matter what her intention was, or how many people have said it before. I’m not saying she’s a bad person. I’m saying she should stop using that word. A lot of people use horrible words to describe mundane things (examples: “I raped someone in a dart game,” and using the N word for just about anything) without realizing how awful it is to do so; their lack of bad intent doesn’t make the action right.
daffodil / 1569 posts
@written_conversations@xanga - We typically only accept interns in the US, due to scheduling issues. But if you think you’d be a particularly qualified candidate, feel free to apply!
guest
@ScarletMoth@xanga - Oh my… I guess someone had to complain about something.
orchid / 242 posts
@missmerlot@xanga - Hahaha, this is exactly what I was thinking.
But it wouldn’t feel right if my last post was all rainbows and unicorns!
Another perk to having this internship: you develop a really thick skin!
orchid / 242 posts
@lohanzodiac06@xanga - Awww that just made my day, thank you so much! <3 I’ll definitely still be submitting posts from time to time — Lovelyish hasn’t seen the last of me!
And yeah, there are a bunch of remote interns, so being in Ohio isn’t a problem at all. Go for it!!
rose / 791 posts
@Jessica - cool, thank you!
guest
You know, I’ve been in a “what am I going to do with my life” mood lately, and while reading this post, I got really excited. Haha. I love writing, and I edit my sister’s grad school papers for her.
I’d intern for Lovelyish, but I’m in Florida. :/ I would love to go up to NY for it, though. Sounds like it would be a great experience.
guest
@darci - Well I have enjoyed reading your posts! And you look very pretty with short hair
Hopefully we get to hear more from you.
daisy / 557 posts
Does one have to live in NYC? =(
sunflower / 453 posts
@missmerlot@xanga - unfortunately yeah, I had to. It would have been better if this had been a more serious post but I obviously couldn’t choose where the word Nazi came in. I don’t think, for a writer, it would be that hard to understand that it is a word that could make some readers uncomfortable.
orchid / 109 posts
How old do you have to be? >_<
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hmm..I do need to build my portfolio though I’ve become a crappy writer.
orchid / 242 posts
@MissLady2012 - @IntheGoldenWest@xanga - You don’t have to be in NY! As long as you have a computer, you can intern for Lovelyish
. Working out of the office is optional; I’m fairly local and only went in a few times.
guest
I am somewhat tempted to join, but I live on the opposite side of New York & I don’t know if I’ll literally have the time.
guest
I’ve always wondered how it would be to intern for something like this. Unfortunately, I do not live in NYC; more like small-town Oklahoma, which is very, very different.
Thank you so much for posting this! I’ll just have to look and see if there’s something closer to home for me