Yes, you read that right. I actually heard something on the heiress’s new show, The World According to Paris, that didn’t have a superficial or shallow emphasis to it and was actually great advice to live by!
One of Paris Hilton’s friends, Jennifer Rovero (pictured with Paris below) was talking to Paris about her relationship with her recent ex-boyfriend, Cy. When Paris was discussing Cy’s trust issues and whether or not she should be with him, Jennifer said:
“If you could make a decision with no one getting hurt, what would you do?”
If I had to make a decision about my relationship with my boyfriend without anyone getting hurt, I’m happy to say I’d still be with him. However, this quote doesn’t only have to pertain to love and relationships. It is really relevant to any obstacles or decisions you come by in life.
Maybe you’re worried about disappointing your parents about something? Or, perhaps you need to tell your best friend something but are afraid to? Ask yourself this question and perhaps you’ll discover exactly what to do!
What do you think about this quote? Can you relate to it in some way?
guest
Hmmm I’ll keep that question in mind when I’m having a tough situation
That’s a good quote.
guest
That was a good question from Paris’s friend. HOWEVER…. She didn’t break up with Cy. (And I’m going by the TV show… I don’t stalk Paris Hilton and get her latest updates, so I don’t know for sure but, according to the show, so far, she’s still with him.)
guest
i think i would smack a few girls in the face
cherry blossom / 28 posts
@torturetoy@xanga - they are on a break as of last week!! but your right, on the show they are still together
sunflower / 302 posts
It’s a quote to keep in mind based on the situation. Most of the time it’s juvenile, selfish, and irresponsible to make decisions solely based upon what would work out for yourself. The fact of the matter is, people will be hurt by your decision. But in the case of relationships, where joint happiness is the entire point, then yes, it’s a wise thing to remember.
rose / 903 posts
If everyone made decisions based soley on what benefited themselves, the world would be even more messed up than it is now.
It’s not a bad question to ask yourself when trying to decide what you really want, though. I really want to move with my boyfriend out of state… but I’m afraid of disappointing my parents.
guest
I see the question as going two ways, one good and one bad. The bad part is, it encourages you to make a decision outside the realm of the real world and situation. The good is that it encourages you to do what is best for yourself. For some reason, the idea of doing what’s best for you is really hard to swallow as moral and right for a lot of people. If you need to ask yourself this question to do it, by all means, ask it.
Remember, you’re not here to make everybody else happy, you’re here to pursue your own happiness (while not violating the rights of others).
lily / 5148 posts
@WaitingToShrug@xanga - true