We all know what happened. Heartbroken Jennifer Aniston lost her man, Brad Pitt, to the one and only Angelina Jolie and had to deal with this story for 7 long years. Jennifer is now accused of a very similar stunt with her current beau, Justin Theroux and his ex-girlfriend, Heidi Bivens. The two have been together for 14 years and Jennifer is now being called ‘a homewrecker.’
Justin Theroux dumped his long term girlfriend after he met Jennifer. One source says he got close to Jennifer Aniston and decided to end his relationship. Another source says he has been wanting to end his relationship for a significant amount of time. Whatever the story is, no one should be calling anyone a homewrecker.
What’s your take on this story?
magnolia / 1042 posts
she’s so pretty.
orchid / 221 posts
@beebizzle@xanga - I know! I’m glad she’s still got it.
guest
THERE’S NO SUCH THING AS A HOME WRECKER! If someone loves you and wants to be with you, NO ONE will be able to “take them away from you.” Everyone has free will.
guest
I actually wonder how much she personally cares about the whole jen/brad/ange fiasco in comparison to how much the media plays it up all the time?
guest
@quasarglow@xanga - I disagree…. its a case by case thing, I have known women who falsely ‘fell in love’ with a guy and completely seduced him into a false relationship JUST to get revenge on this wife…
there are sick people in the world….
And how many high school girl deliberatly fight over guys and break up relationships? thats not love, its just petty cruel drama and relationship wrecking crap…..
guest
@NoPantiesOnMe@xanga - Nope, not buying it. If you love and respect the person you’re with and you’re happy being with them, no one can “seduce” you and steal you away.
guest
how is that revenge?
Revenge would be if Angelina Jolie goes out with another guy then Jennifer steals Jolie’s man, while filming a movie together. Then Brads movie career suddenly becomes stagnant and then he finally gets a role that could revitalize his career…only the catch is that Jennifer Aniston MUST be the supporting actress….which of course she turns down. Angelina Jolie will beg for the role Jennifer Aniston rejected and will be denied.
Thats revenge
guest
@quasarglow@xanga - if you strike out on a relationship with the intent to destroy an existing relationship then you are a home wrecker,
regardless of whether that relationship was happy or not…. that is the definition, whether you buy it or not.
guest
@NoPantiesOnMe@xanga - if the foundation was cracked to begin with, when someone leans on it and it collapses, you can’t blame them for it. There are always going to be things trying to pull people apart. It’s up to THEM to have a strong foundation and resist. When a relationship is weak, it’s going to get broken down one way or another.
lily / 5148 posts
I don’t see how that is revenge…
guest
@quasarglow@xanga - Im not talking about the initial realtionship, a person who strikes out at a realtionship with the sole intent to destroy, no true love or anything.. then they are a homewrecker.
If I decide to go break up my mates relationship, Im a homewrecker, or a try hard anyway. if it breaks, regardless if the reason was 100% me or not.. ive succeeded.
I AM NOT saying that if you love some one who is taken and things turn out that that relationship ends, that you are home wrecker, as there was no sole intent. The sole intent was to be with someone you love, and unfortunately that means a relationship ends.
Are you opening your mind yet? or are you still thinking Im saying that every failed relationship is due to a home wrecker? sheesh. read what Im actually typing…
guest
…whatever a person is comfortable with.
guest
It’s not revenge.
But I hope not D:
sunflower / 317 posts
It’d be a completely different situation if the guy was married…but he wasn’t. Leaving him up for grabs pretty much as he technically had no commitment whatsoever to his ex girlfriend.
And she wasn’t getting revenge. This situation has no effect on Ange/Brad at all.
guest
@quasarglow@xanga - XD
daisy / 693 posts
@quasarglow@xanga - I agree, you can’t steal a guy. But I’ve always thought homewrecker meant a girl/guy who got involved with someone who was already in a relationship. Which I don’t think it’s okay. It’s one thing to talk and flirt and for the person in the relationship to decide he wants to be with you but another for you to start having sex while they’re dating someone else.
guest
1. Look up the word revenge.
2. No one cares.
guest
@Kboi@xanga - hahhaha GOOD ONE!!!
daisy / 598 posts
If that’s true, that would mean Aniston could never be mad again at what Angie “supposedly” did to steal Brad. Cause now she’d have done the exact same thing.
guest
@quasarglow@xanga - I don’t know, I think I could blame someone for that. Why is the person leaning on a collapsing relationship? That’s homewrecking to me. I’m not saying the person in the relationship isn’t to blame for the most part, but that doesn’t absolve the homewrecker of any responsibility. Yes, the homewrecker isn’t the one in the relationship to begin with, but they aren’t being decent and respectful by helping to exacerbate the original problem. Homewreckers should show a little respect and restraint and give the relationship the room it needs to either strengthen or collapse on it’s own without his or her “leaning” on it. A drug dealer is still going to jail, and he can’t use the excuse “well, he was going to buy it from somewhere, anyway.” The problem isn’t what someone else was doing or feeling, the problem is the nature of your own involvement.
Now, if a homewrecker says “You seem like a great person but I’m not going to entertain your advances because you are in a relationship” and then the other person goes out and dumps their SO, that’s not homewrecking.
guest
I don’t get how that’s revenge, and it’s been… a really long time.
guest
don’t blame it on Jennifer! Justin was available when she started dating him. it’s not like she purposely fell for him just to ruin his 14 year relationship with his ex-wife. she didn’t break any rules like Brad did!
guest
how is it revenge if she’s wrecking someone else’s relationship? shouldn’t she be wrecking angelina jolie’s relationship or something to make it considered as revenge??
super dumb.
sunflower / 257 posts
alls fair in love and war
guest
GOD SHE IS SUCH A FOX.
She’s the only female celebrity I have mad respect for. She’s classy, and you can tell she’s a good person.
Regarding the article here, if the guy was actually in love with his girlfriend, he wouldn’t of broke it off with her for Aniston in the first place, would he? No. No such thing as a home-wrecker, the “home” was clearly already wrecked if he left.
Also, get a dictionary, that’s not “revenge”.
sunflower / 432 posts
…How exactly would this be revenge?
And it’s people’s own damn fault if they let their marriages deteriorate after years together.
guest
I believe people need to mind their own business :]
What benefit do you get from ‘supposedly’ knowing about something personal happening in someone’s life that may not even be 100% valid information?Although it may seem interesting, it is a waste of time.
Not saying for you though, but for whomever publicly displaying the news whether on TV or magazines/newspapers.
guest
How the hell is that REVENGE? Someone should send you a dictionary A.S.A.P.
@quasarglow@xanga - Exactly.
@Kboi@xanga - @six6vi@xanga - @Hinase@xanga - THANK YOU.
*Xanga’s Batman Out*
guest
@quasarglow@xanga - I don’t know if that man was married or had kids, but normally the term homewrecker is used for someone that is destorying a family. I don’t if she’s destorying a family or not, but if she is then she;s a homewrecker.
guest
@merquryd@xanga - agreed 1,000%
guest
Sometimes, it’s time to move on to other people. That doesn’t make the woman that the person moved on to a home-wrecker.
dahlia / 2747 posts
damn i thought this was going to be about jennifer getting back at brad.
orchid / 211 posts
If she’s getting her revenge, it should be on Angelina or Brad, not her current b/f and his ex-g/f.