I don’t know about you guys, but I would love to be permanently hairless “down there.” I refuse to do laser hair removal simply because I don’t trust it. So, I am pro-Brazilian waxing.
At times, it is a painful procedure but it’s worth it. The hair takes much longer to grow back vs. shaving with a razor. Not to mention, I’m a busy young woman and I don’t have time to shave every week! But, I’ve been wondering about Brazilian Waxes for the other sex lately…
And my question is, how do you feel about them? If a guy has a jungle of hair going on down there, it will kill my mood instantly! Therefore, I wouldn’t mind less hairy genitals on a man. However, I understand how an insecure man would feel having somebody look at their genitals for about half an hour.
What do you think, Lovelies? Is it a turn off if your man has hair down there? Have you ever made him wax it? If any guys happen to stumble upon this– would ever consider getting it done for your girl?
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I think it’s manly for guys to have hair downstairs. Keeping it nicely trimmed is a definite bonus, but completely bare… yeahhhh let’s leave that for MY downstairs, just sayin’
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not too much and not too little i guess, but it doesn’t really matter to me. whatever floats your boat.
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No I think it’s normal. It can sometimes itch, though..
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Only pre-pubescent boys don’t have hair. But that will land you in prison.
rose / 847 posts
I don’t mind. My boyfriend shaves, and so do I (combination of too cheap and too chickenshit to wax), and I like that, but I don’t think I’d be put off if he didn’t or decided to stop.
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Well I don’t want a jungle…but waxing would probably turn me off…too unnatural. Just keep it trimmed, and I’ll be happy, haha
sunflower / 397 posts
I think it’d look awkward without hair… but I don’t want so much that I’m like “Uhm.. so where’s your dick?” Not too much, but not none!
rose / 980 posts
Eew, a man should have hair down there. (As should a woman, IMO). It should be trimmed nicely, but yeah a guy should well, be a man.
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LOLWUT?
I’m sorry, I’d probably laugh hysterically if a guy told me he waxed his junk. The kind of men I’m attracted to have pubic hair and I don’t give a shit how tamed it is so long as he takes regular showers.
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A guy.. waxing his man parts? bahahaha! no thank you. that be fucking funny to see throw. but it doesn’t turn me off if there hair.
As long as it’s all trimmed i don’t care. :/
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I think it’s just fine if both sexes just do some “landscaping” down there. I don’t think it’s necessary for either to be bare. It’s a pain in the ass.
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I really don’t care. my current bf shaves down there, but my first two didn’t, and it really makes no difference to me at all. I shave just cause it’s more comfortable for me.
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@ohforrealson@xanga - Seconded.
I think it’s a perfectly personal decision though. I choose to shave. I’m not going to dictate what “my man” does with his pubes.
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Completely hairless…no thanks. Trimmed, yes, please!
sunflower / 392 posts
If I have to maintain my pubic hair (I epilate every other week and do a landing strip), he has to too. I don’t like him completely hairless (I’ve had a lover do that before and it just looked odd to me), but groomed is great.
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As long as it’s trimmed it’s fine. Men or women that are hairless everywhere creep me out. I want to date a human not an alien.
cherry blossom / 29 posts
First of all, Lovelyish ABSOLUTELY took out a bunch of my words and added their own words! & secondly, I had a video clip of a guy actually getting his junk waxed!
This is some BS! This is not my full blog!
PEOPLE, GO TO MY BLOG PAGE TO READ MY REAL BLOG ABOUT MALE BRAZILIAN WAXING AND WATCH THE VIDEO CLIP I HAVE OF A GUY TRYING IT OUT FOR THE FIRST TIME!!!
sunflower / 294 posts
i don’t mind hair down there, but not too much! my boyfriend trims with scissors. haha, there’s still hair, but to quote what you said, it’s no “jungle”.
haha, and that’s all i want, just not so much that it’s overwhelming but i wouldn’t ask a guy to shave or wax. it’s not a turn off if there’s some hair.
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I’d prefer his entire body hairless, whether he chooses to wax or shave. hair on his head and subtle stubble on his face is okay but everywhere else—clean shaven is a turn on or like a male pornstar. I don’t mind if he wants me clean shaven or waxed like a female pornstar either. nothing wrong with preferences. I don’t think he looks less manly when he has no hair. I don’t think it makes me look like a preteen without hair either. the clean shaven look just looks sexy to me. to each their own. if he is hairy, then he doesn’t look lickable lol I mean during foreplay, I wouldn’t want to kiss his chest or anywhere else if he is hairy, just saying
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just keep it nice and trim and groomed
rose / 834 posts
yes, a super turn-off. bare is the way to be!!
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@SentimentalDoll@xanga - lmao
sunflower / 397 posts
@Biggie242@xanga - That’s one awkward situation I’d really rather avoid with my guy. xD
magnolia / 1357 posts
I agree with what everyone’s said … completely hairless would be … awkward, I think. I’d rather just have him trim.
As for the laser thing, I think you should go for it. I started getting my bikini lasered one year or one year and a half ago (but I’ve never been very consistent) and I’m almost done. Now I’m getting the full thing lasered, but I’ve only gone to one session (agh, gotta schedule another one!) and hope to be done with it in one year. I think it’s an investment
I’m done with my armpits and the bottom half of my legs (because I only recently started the top part).
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I love hairy men. The more hairy the better!
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I’ve never dated a guy who didn’t have hair downstairs. It’s never really phased me… Thinking about it… if a guy shaved or trimmed that would be cool… But ehh whateverr
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manscaping!
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just keep it trimmed haha
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It’s weird for a guy to not have hair… no hair = no sex. Sorry. I feel weird.
daffodil / 1525 posts
I’d prefer that he trims, at least. Totally grown in hair is a kinda big turn off for me :/ I shave, I’m too scared to wax.
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I haven’t been with anyone who has shaved or waxed. I just don’t care.
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it doesn’t work for both of us to be smooth downstairs and i do think it’s more manly for a man to be hairy, so answer to your question, no it’s not a turn off for a man to be hairy downstairs, lol.
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No. Guys shouldn’t shave or wax. It makes them look like they’re pre-pubecent. If I wanted to see 10 year old penis I’d go on omegle.
I kind of feel the same way about women. Trim for sure so it doesnt look gross. But complete hair removal? ehhh. I’ll do it if the guy really wants it, but as a general rule, I’d rather not. It looks like 10 year old pussy.
To me, the only purpose of complete hair removal for women is so the guys don’t get hair in their mouth when they go down on them, and I don’t get eaten out, ever, because I hate it, so it’s not an issue.
lily / 5148 posts
I like my guys to be untouched down there
Hair and all.
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well i dont want the rainforest but not the desert either lol a wooded area with a well kept lawn is nice tho lol
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I like it natural, sexy.
hydrangea / 93 posts
I like it trimmed, haha cant stand the feeling of hair in my mouth
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Having it waxed would be a little weird. I prefer for my guy to be trimmed if there’s a jungle down there.
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It’s natural to have hair, and I really don’t care. I only shave my bikini area for dance (embarrassing bit if your pubes stick out). But I really don’t care about my boyfriend. As long as he smells nice, and doesn’t have a beard or chest/back hair, I’m totally fine with hair down there.
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Bare-as-babies people gross me out. We’re adults. We’re supposed to have “hair down there”. I used to shave completely bald until I had my daughter and realised our downstairs looked the same. Yeah… A little too creepy for me.
As for my guy shaving down there.. He’s done it a couple times, but I’m not too fussy about it. I’d rather he kept it trimmed than shaved (or waxed) it completely.
cherry blossom / 29 posts
My gosh! For those of you who say no hair is weird for a female AND male and those who say hair are for grown ups, have you females ever masturbated or received oral sex and felt a bit more pleasure with little to no hair than if you did have hair?
And the women and men who give oral sex, do you like to always have hair follicles in your mouth? (Unless it was nicely trimmed up)
Now if you are not sexually active, then I do not see why you should shave down there unless it’s just your own personal preference……
sunflower / 264 posts
Wanting someone to be completely bald down there just makes me feel like you have paedophilic tendancies
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As a guy, lemme say this:
1) I’m a ridiculously hairy guy. I always have been, it’s just something that comes with the territory. I can’t manipulate how much hair I grow or where, so sorry.
2) That being said, HELL NO to waxing. Imagine the toughest, strongest velcro you’ve ever had to separate. Now imagine it, not just by the most sensitive part of your body, but covering your prized possessions, and THEN surrounding it in spades. So, no waxing.
3) Unlike you ladies, we men have some more finer “contours” down there that a razor just shouldn’t go… ever. Believe me, I’ve tried to go clean shaven down there a few times before. When it’s all said an done, it looks like a shaved chinchilla- cut up and scared.
So, we trim… as best we can.
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yes..turnoff
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I get turned off if they look like a bald rat. Sorry, but if I wanted to have sex with a hairless being, I’d find someone who had whole-body alopecia or a child.
Which isn’t to say that people who like people bald down there like children, or that it has anything at all to do with that. I’m just saying those are the two most likely places you’re going to find a hairless crotch.
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@buddyboriatli@xanga - Haha, my friend and I refer to hairy 80′s porn as “Bumping Chinchillas”.
sunflower / 432 posts
I think everyone should have hair down there.
I shave so that I have a landing strip but I never shave it all off because I’m not nine years old.
I want my man to be neat and trimmed (and he is) but I’m definitely not into the hairless look. Or the crazy bush look.
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Well as long as it’s not a forest…. but if he’s bare – that’s just freaking creepy.
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i kinda dont like it at all.. :C
but of course i have exceptions~
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i think it’d be creepy if he shaved down there.
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turn on, but they should trim it some.
when they shave it all….it tends to scream feminine in my eyes.
orchid / 138 posts
I don’t care either way. My husband sometimes shaves down there and sometimes he doesn’t, so I could care less either way.
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My SO keeps it trimmed but definitely not shaved… We aren’t starring in porn or anything… Hair is natural so it really doesn’t bother me.
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I’d prefer it to be hairless because the hair gets in the way and it looks gross.
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It’d be a turn-off if it
wasn’t
down
there. I’m not screwing no girl.
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well women shave, they shave everything, arms, armpits, downstairs, legs, upperlip, forehead even, eyebrow. the least a man can do is groom their downstairs
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I’m sorry but for me..yes.
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I think it’d be a bit strange for men to be completely hairless. Actually, I think it’s strange for women to be completely hairless too. My opinion though. Trimmed and tidy, yes. I don’t want to shag a bush, thanks.
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Just trimmed! I know shaving can really hurt so… waxing is out of the question lol. As for me, I’d prefer to keep it trimmed or shaved, been too afraid to try waxing
hydrangea / 98 posts
I prefer my man to be natural. I would think that the waxing procedure would be much more painful for a man than it is for a woman. The most sensitive parts of our genitalia are hidden away whereas a mans most sensitive parts are “out there” so to speak.
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I have no preference visually, but when a guy has a good bit of hair on his shaft it can make sex incredibly irritating. My only request is that the shaft be trimmed if necessary; the rest is all good to me (though completely hairless doesn’t sound like much of a turn-on, tbh). Comfort is key!
orchid / 144 posts
My boyfriend and I laugh when people talk about this. We feel like it’s porn star like to be bare or shave there.
I’m not hairless nor do i wax/shave/etc. down there so I don’t expect my boyfriend to. It’s perfectly natural to have hair there.
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Well, I don’t like jungles. But no hair at all is gross. I like men, not little boys.
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I’m a guy. I stay nicely trimmed, but i wouldnt go clean down there on my own choice. For my girl, yes. But as long as she doesnt care about it, i’m leaving it trimmed.
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I don’t have a problem with hair “down there” unless it’s not hygienic (ex: washed, clean, etc.) We were born w/ hair & we’re going to continue to have hair.
Yes, I shave my armpits, bikini line, and I wax the eyebrows & anything else that happens. Boyfriend trims occasionally so it’s not a jungle (;
I personally get sort of creeped out when there’s no hair, because then it’s almost pre-pubescent. Ick.
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cherry blossom / 38 posts
I almost hooked up with this guy and when he revealed his, I guess, natural look down there, I completely got turned off and had to make an excuse to get out of there. I’ve been with a shaved guy, and when they’re ready to “go” he looks HUGE and tasty
trimmed is OK..but if you want me to taste your junk, i dont wanna see an effing lawn down there.
Ew.
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@ange_lae@xanga - Just curious – do you not shave your legs or armpits either now?
I think it looks ridiculous for guys to shave, but I have done it before when a girl was adamant about it.
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I am MAN, i am proud in the masculinity GOD has given me. and i will not forsake that by trying to make myself look like a prepubescent child. to any female who complains about men who have hair…you still have growing up to do. As for men who dont like the hairs growing all over them. your body is maturing faster than you are… time to play catch up
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I like hair down their on men and woman. I think shaved genitalia look strange. I don’t even care for them to trim it. I think it looks masculine on men and what I consider TRULY feminine on women. Maybe that’s a product of the generation and culture I grew up in. It seems to be much more of an issue with younger people.
I also have learned that to a degree it’s a racial preference. People of African, Asian, Native American descent naturally tend toward having less body hair than Caucasians and people of European descent, and I’ve heard that body hair tends to be more of a turn off. But with media and fashion growing ever more revealing I think more men and women have begun to shave more parts of their anatomy. I’m sort of a hippie at heart.
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I’m not into overly hairy men. For example, I wouldn’t go near a guy who has a hairy chest. But I have no problems with pubes in that region. My boyfriend shaved his pubes once and I was more repulsed by that than when he has it naturally!
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personally like my man to have a nice thrush of a ball-fro downstairs. it would turn me off if he didn’t.
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Having hair down there isn’t a turn off so long as they are groomed, though I expect my downstairs to be clean.
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Trimmed is nice. I think I would be a little weirded out by no hair though
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@BimmerPhile@xanga - I actually have very little body hair, naturally. I do shave my armpits and only the bottom half of my legs, though. The hair on my thighs is so sparse, blonde and soft that you can’t even really tell it’s there.
Lol, the interesting things people share about themselves on the internet
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@ange_lae@xanga - So why is it OK to shave your pits and legs where you naturally have hair but not OK to shave your crotch?
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@BimmerPhile@xanga - Did I not already explain that in my first comment??
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Well, I like some body hair on guys anyway (I find it manly and sexy), but in my experience…it can make sex unpleasant. Obviously if they shave there will be a bit of grow out, and that gives a sort of whisker burn affect which hurts! And, the same for if they “manscape”. It can get itchy and weird.
I like them au-natural.
sunflower / 389 posts
Ya know, if guys expect us to be hairless, perhaps they should be too.
Or maybe the porn industry should have something in-between mainstream and “hairy fetishes”. Just sayin’.
rose / 853 posts
Hair is natural and a sign of having gone through puberty. I’ll prefer trimming, but completely hairless on a guy? Ew.
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Just as long as it’s not like a jungle down there, I don’t care.
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This guy refused to shave or trim his pubes once. and I went to do my usual business on him and instead of protesting I went ahead and did it. I couldn’t finish him because his hair was in my face and got in my mouth.