For the last couple of weeks i was overwhelmed with sadness because my crush has not replied back to my email that I had sent him since last month.
At first i thought he didn’t have time to check his emails. But i’m sure he would have checked it by now. My head was popping with reasons of why he hasn’t replied back. I think is mainly because i probably have annoyed him on the last day of class.
I tried to move on and not think about him, but it wasn’t working out. I was constantly looking at his pictures or checking out his social networking sites (I know, I’m a freak). I was so desperate to get over him that i googled tips on how to get over my crush. I’m sure most of you had some kind of issue with a guy you really liked such as a breakup or probably he was not interested in you. Watever the reason is, there are ways to help you get over him. These are some tips that i found online that helped me to get over the guy i liked. Hope it helps!
1.) Hang out with your close friends. Being alone can make it even harder to get over a guy you still like than it has to be. Go out shopping, exercise, dance or go out to a club. This will take your mind of the guy for the time and raise your confidence when you go out and have fun or when you start to work out because it will make you feel better.
2.) Stop listening to songs that reminds you of him or any sad songs, which will make you even more depressed. Start listening to songs that you would want to jump out and dance to. (Ex: Cascada- Evacuate the dancefloor)
3.) Get rid of everything that reminds you of him or any contact information. Such as texts that you saved, phone number, pictures, emails, presents that he gave you…..exc.
And remember that it’s OK to cry.
Are there any tips that you would like to share that helped you to get over someone that you liked?
rose / 812 posts
Good tips
Shouldn’t this be on datingish though?
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Hobbies, new or old.
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Closure
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great advice! I’ve recently had a similar experience to yours, and i did the same things; I also deactivated my facebook account because I know I get freaky and keep looking at their page, and at their friends’ or our mutual friends’ pages. It’s a sucky situation for anyone, but these things definitely helped get through it. Another thing I recommend is a personal change–maybe a new hair cut or color? A new piercing or tattoo? I know some of those things are drastic, but I think one change calls for another. Plus, getting a new hair cut or something at least makes you feel good about yourself!
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Check this out !
http://www.wikihow.com/Get-over-a-Crush-on-Your-Coworker
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great advice. hanging out with friends, for sure. it always gives you that little bit of distraction and gradually, over time it gets better
however, i suppose this can have the opposite effect and when they leave you become even more down than before?
jus’ sayin’.
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Wait this is just a crush? Why don’t you try contacting him again? Maybe he forgot to respond….it’s an email- they get overlooked all the time.
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@UnconventionalButterfly@xanga - Agreed, this probably belongs there.
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I think hanging out with your girl friends really helps!
Also, I think the best way is to meet another nice guy!
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@vicdaily@xanga - My thoughts exactly, seems a bit extreme just for a crush. Sounds more like tips for getting over a breakup, cept they weren’t ever together sooo…odd.
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I’d laugh if you sent it to an email account he doesn’t use anymore, and he actually likes you, but that’s just the vindictive side of me talking.
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That devastated for a CRUSH? I wonder how you would take it if it was an actual relationship where you invested your time and a part of yourself into the other person. =|
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Stalk him in the bookstore (but don’t let him see you).
orchid / 221 posts
What if he’s basically your best friend though? D:
sunflower / 499 posts
Add keeping yourself busy with a hobby.
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Ugh I can’t do it, I have texts from him saved since August.
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Lovelyish, don’t you check posts for grammar/spelling errors anymore? :-/ This is really badly edited.
Anyway, OP – if you’re struggling this badly to get over a crush, I worry how you’ll cope when you’re in a relationship that comes to an end…
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fuck this.
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Crushs and long term boyfriends are so different lol.