So, Sandra Bullock’s cheating ex Jesse James is engaged to his new GF, tattoo artist Kat Von D, reports People:
You know sometimes the public and press gets it wrong. This is one of those times. 2010 was actually the best year of my life because I fell in love with my best friend. An amazing woman who stood behind me when the world turned their backs,” James tells PEOPLE exclusively. “I have never met anyone so kind and loving and committed to making the world a better place every day. My love for her is beyond description. So honored that she said ‘yes.’ Growing old with her is going to be a f—-n’ blast!”
Ok, good luck with that, Kat. And, do we even have to say it? TEAM SANDRA FOREVER!
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FUCKING EW!!! hella on team Sandra, who is with Ryan Reynolds!!
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NOOO!
Oh Kat, WHY?
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Poor Kat :/
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I might get shit for this, but surely you can’t help who you fall in love with? And the public will NEVER know the entire story. Maybe you need to get off your high horses and stop being so judgemental, eh, Lovelyish?
daisy / 593 posts
He makes me sick and now she is no better.
rose / 944 posts
@individually_surveys@xanga - You can’t help who you fall in love with, but you have complete control over how you go from there. If it’s true love, you divorce/separate/whatever from your current partner and THEN go after your love. Cheating is just a crappy move.
dahlia / 2103 posts
I still like Kat, although I do think what Jesse did to Sandra was really shitty, especially since the woman he allegedly cheated with looks like a tranny, and not a pretty one at that. I think Kat and Sandra are both very smart, motivated, accomplished women, they are just a lot different from each other.
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@Wait_by_Moonlight@xanga - I’m not condoning his cheating, but it’s extremely easy to sit here from an outsiders viewpoint and say “Oh, boo, he’s wrong/evil/whatever” when we essentially only know the media’s version of events.
daffodil / 1569 posts
@individually_surveys@xanga - eh, he openly cheated on his wife with multiple women without using protection, so not only did he destroy his marriage and hurt the person he took vows to love, but he jeopardized her health. so it doesn’t matter who he was in “love” with, you don’t do that to another human being.
orchid / 190 posts
aww, they deserve each other! heh heh heh
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I’m not gonna lie, I think Kat is a better fit for him. I love her regardless though.
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@Jessica - Again, I’m not condoning his behaviour, but all it seems is that Lovelyish is full of criticisms for everyone. Every post about celebrities bitches about people and their choices :-/
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jesse james needs to gtfo
daffodil / 1569 posts
Oh, and also, saying 2010 was the best year of your life? After suffering public shame and destroying your marriage in front of the whole world? Grrrr
daffodil / 1569 posts
@individually_surveys@xanga - not true, just yesterday we applauded celebs with small boobs AND Zac Efron
sunflower / 287 posts
Did you just use the word “barf?” It’s like kindergarten all over again. Plus, who are they?
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growing old with her?! HAAAAA! you mean the next MAYBE 3 years. if even.
dahlia / 2103 posts
@individually_surveys@xanga - I’m with you on this one, for what it’s worth. Perhaps I am just biased because I like Kat von D…but like you said, there’s about 99.3% of the story that none of us will ever know.
magnolia / 1042 posts
that’s a huge blow to sandra. geez. what a douche. but i don’t like either of them anyways.
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Saying 2010 was the best year of his life is rather rude. I mean, at least say something like he regrets hurting people but is glad he got something positive out of it. There were better ways to go about this…
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Oh wells, congratulations to them.
*Xanga’s Batman Out*
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Oh, Kat. You disappoint me.
daisy / 699 posts
@individually_surveys@xanga - I’m with you on this one. Sandra didn’t deserve what she got, but who’s to say she was a great wife? Did she have sex with her husband, ever? Was she incredibly controlling and manipulative behind the scenes? We just -don’t- know enough to judge. The media highlights awful behaviour on his part, but never once tried shedding light on anything she may have done. No, I don’t condone what he did. But I don’t think it’s right to assume she did nothing wrong.
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@needmoreink@xanga - @airbornerose@xanga - thank you!
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wow, that was quick. I just found out like a month ago that her and nikki weren’t together anymore.
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Really, people, really? So we’re not only going to judge this person based on like the one thing we know about him (He cheated… Oh God?) but now her, too?
I think it’s ridiculous that people don’t think he should pursue love or be happy because he cheated, and it’s more ridiculous that people are staying stuff about her for getting with him because of it. Yes, he cheated, but if we just won’t even consider getting with someone because they’ve cheated before then everyone is limiting themselves from finding someone that could be truly amazing who may have just made a stupid mistake. Also, I hope all the naysayers have and get boyfriends ONLY who have been completely faithful in the past or else it’s a little hypocritical, no?
As for me, I’m not going to eliminate an amazing person who I click with just because they’ve cheated before, and I’m glad Kat was open and mature enough to do the same.
daisy / 568 posts
Sandra is better off with Ryan Reynolds anyway. I hope these two have a great married life….i guess. Pretty ridiculous though. Can’t stand Kat Von D. anymore. Team Sandra!
dahlia / 2382 posts
Kat came WAY after Sandra dumped the douche but I dont like that people associate Kat with whoever that skank was just because Kat has alot of tattoos. Kat breaks alot of stereotypes about women with tattoos. She has her own businesses & even though yes she didnt finish schoo, she’s very intelligent & sociable.
That being said, I agree with @individually_surveys@xanga - . We dont know the whole story & you cant help who you fall in love with. Hopefully Jesse learned his lesson & Kat will be smart to protect herself.
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Good for him? how is this about supporting Sandra? She divorced him and she is getting on with her life. He was public trashed and Kat apparently stood by him so good luck for them. I don’t think its necessary to bash them. For one we were not in the marriage with him and Sandra and we shouldn’t be judging him. Was it wrong? yes. Do I care? Not Really. It’s none of my business to go on hating this man just because I love Sandra Bullock as an actress. I know neither one so I don’t really pass judgment on them where judgment isn’t do. It’s best to stay a critic on Sandra’s acting skill, Kat’s tattoo skill, and well whatever the hell he does.
daisy / 669 posts
@Jessica - I totally agree with you on this one!
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he’s already been married at least 2 other times to his “best friends”.. so i’d be pretty sketch about this if i were her lol (and i’d make sure he had no more other girl best friends?)
sunflower / 255 posts
blah. poor choice I feel
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Vomit. They deserve each other.
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@justXforXyou_beautiful@xanga - Exactly.
@Shinbi_Belldandy@xanga - Thank you.
daisy / 598 posts
Uh, the world turned their back on you BECAUSE YOU CHEATED! Obviously Sandra didn’t know that he wanted to be with other women, and they were still in a committed relationship, marriage at that! If problems were that bad, no matter whose fault, he should’ve been man enough to divorce or work it out. Cheating is cowardly. The fact that Kat Von D is the one who “stood behind him” through all of this, shows she is ignorant about the type of man he is. Didn’t even give him time to consider his actions and suffer the consequence and grow from it. The timing is just BAD.
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Damn. I thought she was still with Nikki.
hydrangea / 77 posts
forget team sandra, im all on team nikki sixx! they were so cute together,
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awwwe
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I know some women don’t have issues with infidelity, but I could never trust someone who did that to someone else, because I know it could JUST AS EASILY happen to me.
sunflower / 342 posts
This doesn’t make me hate Kat D Von any less, tbh.
But it seems to be that Mr Jesse James thinks he deserves a little more than his already given 5-minutes of (negative) fame
xo’
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ewwww.. He’s a douche bag.. I mean Sandra Really loved him and he cheated… Sandra could do better like Ryan Reynolds… he is yummy
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agreed… but i thought this was a beauty blog, not a celebrity scoop blog… whatev.
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Wow…… she has nothing on Sandra!!!!! WTF.
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Actually, I think Kat is kinda cute in a neo-nazi, American History X sort of way.
@individually_surveys@xanga - Ah, the voice of reason. So out of place here.
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@suicide_king23@xanga - *blush* – why thank you!
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@individually_surveys@xanga - I would sub you, but I can’t stand surveys.
But from one mind to another:
(stands and salutes)
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@suicide_king23@xanga - no worries, thanks again!
@PseudoEuphoric@xanga - I know, right? It seems that the only articles that aren’t about celebrities are ones copied from other sites. It’s pityful, really. I seem to have found a kindred spirit with your comments, though!
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Trash will seek out other trash.
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I don’t feel bad for either of them — disgusting people!
And yes TEAM SANDRA!!
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yuckkk! oh, kat what are you doing?!?!
orchid / 109 posts
who cares, leave them alone
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=/
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Kat is trashy and he likes trashy women. What’s the big deal?
daisy / 658 posts
do you remember when his main affair was first exposed, with that neo-nazi woman with a face tattoo. back then everyone was like there is a difference between trashy tats and tasteful tats.kat von d’s is tasteful and taht woman is not,lol just seem people’s opinions of kat gone down after the pairing
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She dated an admitted heroin addict and screams “I’m sleazy.” Shame on Kat? Shame on you airheads for glamorizing women like her.
orchid / 153 posts
i loved kat… but this made me lose a lot of respect for her…
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nooooooo Kat you can do so much better.
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she’d be pretty hawt if it didn’t look like a goddamn 5 year old had scribbled all over her with a magic marker
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Yeah, he’s kind of a jackoff, but it doesn’t really surprise me he could find somebody else. Perhaps they have a few good years before one of them cheats.
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Does anyone think she looks like a female version of Bruce Willis?
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I liked Kat and now I’ve lost all respect for her. =\
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Some of you need your lives in the public eye so that every time you make a mistake we can all say “Ew!” or “Barf”. Everyone makes mistakes, it just so happens that these people have their mistakes broadcasted to the world. I’m sure you are all so perfect.
If they are in love I hope it works out.
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I think they could make a wonderful couple. People make mistakes. I’ve definitely made my share of mistakes, and I know how close i’ve become to the people who never walked away during those times. We don’t know even remotely close to the whole story. I dont ACTUALLY know ANYTHING about any of these people for sure, so im not going to bash them or judge them. I doubt you know them either.