Lovelyish

Sometimes I hang out with a friend.

I just suggest getting drunk.

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#3 would be the one I’m guilty of right now….thinking about the past….if I could learn to follow the advice, I might be able to move on…..

Meditation works best for me. It takes practice, but it’s worth it.

I like this post. I get really caught up in small details and it can make me a real biotch if I let it control me. Some of these I do coincidentally to make myself feel better.

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well, i guess coloring would be an efficient way to quit overthinking. >.< i think “overthinking” is quite an obstacle for many women, myself included. an intelligent, emotional lady can become exhausted easily. however, that doesn’t mean you have to dumb yourself down. (which this article is NOT suggesting) overthinking does not equal negative thoughts. it’s about balancing the way you analyze certain situations. 

i’m glad coloring is the first fun thing you listed. ahahaha.

Okay, but what if you over-think everything, not just the negative stuff? I have a brain that won’t shut up, to the point that it keeps me awake until odd hours of the night just…thinking. 

#6: Take OCD pills

Excellent list. I especially like the suggestion to color

Second guessing & overanalyzing messes you up sometimes (not counting life saving situations of course). Mainly for me it’s testing & it’s proven a majority of the time your first choice is the right one. Then I zoom in on the negative instead of seeing all the good I did. 

This is why I never leave home without my Ipod. Music helps relax me. I have a song for just about everything.

Can’t help the negative thoughts..I’m bipolar..currently without medication..so yeah. And not being able to get away from negative things doesn’t help either. Sometimes you don’t have the time or money or anything to do that. It just happens. >.> 

I don’t over analyze thank god…

Interesting though..

I listen to some happy music and/or blog.

Overthinking is a terrible habit of mine. Whenever I’m caught overthinking by my friends, I get lectured by my friends sometimes. It sucks because it brings me down more. I don’t think it’s easy to stop. For me, I usually need the encouragement and reassurance from others. Aside from that, there’s nothing else to help me.

I remind myself that this is a moment that will soon pass and I will feel better so may as well speed up the moment and get to the feeling better part.

Oh… So incredibly guilty. I’m a terrible overthinker. I think I’m getting better though! It usually stops when I’m in the middle of a conversation, because instead of pondering what I should of done, I think of what to say next, and attempt to make it come out right.

I usually think of things i say because I’m that friend, you know, the one with the random, yet idiotic comment that has no relation to the topic. I’m such an odd bird -_-
Meditation really helps ^_^

i love this

Great Post!  I try to surround myself with positive people who will make me laugh.  I am a huge overthinker..thank God for the good people in my life.

I go to coffee shop when I am feeling down. 

Thank you so much for writing this. <3

yes! great ideas! @pure_dasani@xanga - i don’t go to coffee shop. But i ilove coffee!!!

I do overthink a lot, especially when I’m freaking stressed!!!! I like to do…

Sudoku
Look at nail arts (it’s been an obsession of mine for about two weeks – THANKS to my coworker. Haha!)
Go on Chictopia to see inspiration : )
Read blogs
Write bog posts!

Just to share y’all.

I overthink waaay too much and it always get me into troubles. I think it’s important to just center and remember that yes, things happen and there’s no use overthinking them.

I just ignore the thoughts and do whatever thing I am trying to over-think.  I remind myself that I can’t control everything and that I can handle problems as they arise.  I do think this is a good list.  I do a lot of the things on here as well.

I like this list, especially #4. 

when I freak out I usually start editing photos, hahaha… Or go shopping

2 and 3 are an epic win. Whenever something bad happens to me, I just try my best to make that work in my favor as much as possible. Even if it’s still not working in my favor, at least I’ve mitigated the damage it does.

I go listen to Evanescence till im drowned. Just helps at tht moment though.

Keeping busy with school and work automatically gets my mind off silly things.

all women are guilty of overthinking because that’s how the female brain works. it’s biology. it is still a good idea to try these tips to control it though. remind yourself that you’re overthinking things because of your female brain, and that things might not be the way you’re seeing them.

@ChalkWhiteAndOhSoFrail@xanga -  :)
I’m a pessimist. I’m not sure if there is any other way for me to be because I am sure as hell not an optimist. Is there even an in-between? LOL

great post, i hate overthinking things.  

Having sum1 2 tlk 2.

Thanks for blogging this.